ok. im going out with this kid ((today is 6 weeks)) i like him but... for one thing, the whole time, hes only given me hugs. not like a boyfriend hug. just a weird awkward hug. once a day at school. and another thing is that he is just so much like a puppy! he...
1. talks a lot and loudy when he gets excited
2. follows me around EVERYWHERE
3. is really like protective...
i feel horrible to break up with him, but it have to!!! and soon. so please tell me i guess ways to break up with him, and no, im not gonna do it, ill have a friend do it. but what do i say???? please help me, i know i dont have a good question but please???????
2006-12-07 11:14:15 · 8 answers · asked by lovely 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, i dont mean i want to go anywhere sexually!
2006-12-07 11:27:12 · update #1
This is something you can't have a friend do. You need to do it on your own. I had an ex who was like that too. But at some point you need to grow up and realize everyone has to go through this hard part of life. And as to what YOU (not your friend) should say to him, just tell him how you feel. That it isn't working out and that you need to see other poeple. No it isn't him, It is you. Something along those lines. AND MAKE SURE YOU TELL HIM YOUR SELF! SOunds like he may have a bit of an insecurity issue, do not make it wose!
2006-12-07 11:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by Jodanna B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not have a friend do it!! Are you crazy? That's so mean!! If you can't talk to him face to face, which you really should, then atleast write him a letter. Just tell him that you really enjoyed the oppurtunity to get to know him better but that you feel that you guys would make better friends than a couple. Please don't be mean to the kid. He just doesn't know any better.
2006-12-07 19:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by Princesa Morenita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You sound really young.
It's only been 6 weeks. So it's still new and he's understandably shy.
And for crying out loud, just TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL. Don't just break up with him outta nowhere... and geez, don't have SOMEONE ELSE break up with him. Be a MAN for God's sake. (I know you're not a man, but you know what I mean).
2006-12-07 19:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
However you to decide to do it, you should really do it face to face because sending a friend to do it will only make him feel stupid and no matter how you feel about him he still deserves to be treated nicely. I say you just tell him that you need to move on and that you don't want to see him anymore.
2006-12-07 19:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by jason 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your just upset because your relationship is not going anywhere sexually.. its probably cause he's nervous..
make moves on him if thats just it.
but if you still just really wanna end it,,
just call him or send him a txt saying "im srry but i wanna break up."
its actually alot easier than doing it in person for you and the dumped.
2006-12-07 19:17:46 · answer #5 · answered by musicalxcrash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have low interest. best way is to be too busy to hang. he'll get the message.
2006-12-07 19:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him he should understand.
2006-12-07 19:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by black.bullet32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him the truth
2006-12-07 19:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by bnbnbnb123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋