how can i know somebody for real
2006-12-07 11:01:33 · 14 answers · asked by micca M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time and daily experinces. You never really know, because it can take years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it. Go with your gut, but to keep up walls all the time will prevent you from experiencing true happiness and trust. You can't control what others do to you, so just hope for the best!
2006-12-07 11:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by ßαßε 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, you cannot even trust yourself! Time and circumstances change and people change accordingly - a question of survival. I suggest that you read a book - "The Selfish Gene". However, at different times in our lives, we have to trust someone e.g. your mother when you are young, your doctor when you are sick etc. Luck has a lot to do with one and people judgement, a lot to do with the other. The better you are at judging people and circumstance, the less you will be disappointed. Expect the worst but hope for the best: and good luck!
2006-12-07 19:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by Tom Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust only comes with time and it is something you both have to work at. Only with time can you work out if someone is totally honest.
2006-12-07 19:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time to know if you can trust a person, experience and patience. Even when you think you can trust a person, sometimes you really can't.
2006-12-07 19:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by Princesa Morenita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to build trust. Only time will tell.
2006-12-07 19:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by wendy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the very same problem. My solution is to just wait a long time to get to know the other person well.
2006-12-07 19:03:13 · answer #6 · answered by Fioriae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just trust them!
2006-12-07 19:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by FP 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust them until they are proven untrustworthy.. otherwise you just end up hurting them, yourself and making unnecessary problems! I know sometimes it seems hard but just make it a conscious decision to trust them
2006-12-07 19:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by woopsy44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know them over time and then you have to make the decsion whether or not to trust them
2006-12-07 19:03:36 · answer #9 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have faith in your ''gut feeling". Trust when it feels right. No one can answer this for you.
2006-12-07 19:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by dhalia_1977 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋