he seemed to want my attention so muchhguys advice please,this guy knew i was married ,looked at me so much ,even foolowed me and stood staring also out of the window when i left work,he stood up for me once and told aguy to leave me alone ,people have said he did not want to get involved ,so why bother flirting in the first place i really dont understand,ive fallen for him,do you think if he really cared he would of approached me ,i let him know i liked him by keep looking back at him.as i said if he didnt want to get involved why bother with me in the first place ,he seemed to want my attention so much,then left job didnt even saygoodbye wrote to him but heard nothing ,cant get over this ,why he do this or was it just a game to him
2006-12-07 10:53:15 · 14 answers · asked by olivia a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course it was a game to him- and you played along with it right up to writing him a note! What else is he supposed to do with a married woman? He did it because it was fun to watch you fall for him, and he liked that little humiliation.
2006-12-07 10:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are naturally flirty, but if he is following you around the place, maybe you should just confront him. Tell him that your not comfortable with him following you around so much. If someone said that to me I would feel guilty and back right off.
But! if you are writing him letters and looking back at him, then it is all your fault too, because you are leading him on. If he has left your work, and you will never see him again, forget it and focus on your family. Thats what you should have done the whole time anyway
2006-12-07 10:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by twikfat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*** it's safe to flirt w/ someone who's in a committed relationship cause then u don't have to worry about them trying to "latch onto u"...except in your case...u seem to have crushed that idea. what the heck are u doin writing him? you're married and you're totally disregarding your husband here? smarten up! you've got no business looking elsewhere while you're still married. if you're not happy w/ your husband then how about a divorce BEFORE u start lookin elsewhere? it's the least u could for the man u ONCE loved enuf to commit to marriage w/.
2006-12-07 10:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by meme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shouldnt matter to you whether it is a game or not to him... YOU are married. i know its nice to be looked at and theres nothing wrong with a little attention from a nice, normal guy, but anything more than that is going into the danger zone. you cant have both worlds, its either married life or the single life. you choose.
2006-12-07 10:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by piratelove22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question should be; why were you flirting with him if you're married? And, you WROTE him? And now you 'cant get over this'? Perhaps he flirted with you because you gave him all the signals that it was OK?
Get Real! Move on! Go flirt with your husband & write him something nice, he deserves it!
2006-12-07 10:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by bionicbookworm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys sometimes like to flirt with married women because it's somewhat safe (most times nothing will come of it). sometimes guys find married women very sexy because many times the women isn't satisfied at home and he can lay the wood hard and she'll enjoy it. therefore, he can have sex with you and not have to deal with a relationship because you are still married.
Basically, guys like to bone married women because it's easy and doesn't require a whole lot of obligations.
2006-12-07 10:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have never gotten married in the first place. It is immature to come on here and ask advice on how to cheat.
2006-12-07 10:55:44 · answer #7 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has more sense and morals than you do. He didn't give in to his desires like you were ready to. People do not have control of who they are attracted to, but they have control of their actions. You are not living up to your wedding vows and I feel sorry for your husband. He married a tramp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-07 11:01:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You never know until you try.....(he probably is interested but you are married RIGHT?)(he's got morals?)
2006-12-07 10:57:00 · answer #9 · answered by Daniel H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who the hell cares, you are married! It's a moot point.
2006-12-07 10:55:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋