hi, i go to college and i m a litle popular n my build is skinny. I have noticed that in which ever class i go to, there are atleast 3 or 4 girls looking at me and i dont like it. 2 girls told me they really like me. but i just want to sit down in class without being looked at. honestly i am not making this up, it's true. if it's 1 girl, then it's ok, but there r always 3 or 4, i can tell they are looking at me and if my face turns that way, the look away. i don't want to embarrass anyone, but how should i tell them to stop it? i really don't like it, it's been going on for years. this guy was looking at this girl in class one day, and she started shouting at him and embarrased him, she said what the h ell you looking at, you moron. i felt angry, the guy was a friend of mine.
The problem is that i like this girl in my class, and i can't talk to her or even look at her, because then other girls would think bad of me, call me things, n i dont want to hurt feelings.
plz tell me wat 2 do..
2006-12-07 10:51:18 · 23 answers · asked by John-Wokinson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p.s. am not gay, there's this girl i like in my class, she's so pretty, but don't know what to do. that's why i asked here, thanks for help anyway.
2006-12-07 10:55:22 · update #1
and one more thing, please don't think that i am someone who thinks too much of himself. like preteding that i am the best looking man or somethig. i am telling the truth. and some of your advices are great. keep em coming
2006-12-07 10:59:05 · update #2
come on this is too long to read, why need to write your life story. if some one looks at you just smile you can say hello also. don't wig out about it.
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2006-12-07 10:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gee Gosh Wow You really think everyone is looking at you drooling, huh !? Well, ok, I'll stop giggling now and try to be serious If you don't want them staring at your GRAND ENTRANCE, how about getting to class early , and sit in the back. About the girl, you are in College dude, you can talk to who ever you want, the whole class really doesn't care that you are having a conversation, and you are in class only a Semester, not a full year, so the scene will change after Christmas break, Maybe then they will look at some other hottie !
2006-12-07 10:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by Lola 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Check the ego Timberlake!! Not every girl looking at you wants to be a star in your porn video. Curiosity is natural in all animals, and you said you go to college, then you should know that. Your friend may have offended the girl, there are 3 sides to the story get more than one before forming an opinion. Question is, what is with not liking for a girl to look at you, that is the simplest form of a compliment, especially if they are smiling, I mean hell they could throw up after gazing upon your magnificence.
2006-12-07 10:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by thugtwin1@sbcglobal.net 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. You just learn to ignore people who look at you. I don't know if you are good looking and they are appreciative or maybe you are a real nice guy and they want to be your friend. But if you aren't interested in friends then just ignore them when they look. It's a free country - unless they are looking down your jeans then they can do what they want.
If I threw a fit every time some guy looked at me, I'd never be able to go to work, fill my vehicle up with gas, or even get groceries! It's not a big deal, it's just a human response. I just smile and go on since it doesn't hurt a thing.
2006-12-07 10:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by honey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem probably doesn't have to be as complicated as you're making it seem. Talk to the girl you like, let the other girls say what they will (it's all jealousy anyway), and if oyu and your crush get together, the other girls will eventually lose interest and stop watching you (or at least they'd do it a lot less frequently). I wouldn't publicly embarrass them, that doesn't seem like a very good way to go about things (not to mention if word got around to your crush that you behaved that way, chances are she'd be put off by it).
2006-12-07 10:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by Skyler789 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just follow u heart . MAn Time doesn't wait for anyone make your move right now call that girl and set an private apointment with her go to some restraunt and tell her the truth . Just FOLLOW YOUR HEART!
2006-12-07 10:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you need to lighten up! I'm not saying this to be mean, it's just the opposite. First of all, not everybody who looks at you looks because your skinny. You take it that way because of your own self consiousness. Seriously! As far as the girl you like, just talk to her. Is it really going to hurt you to talk to the girls who claim to like you? Even if you aren't attracted to them, you can still talk to them. You do have guy friends that you talk to and you're not attracted to them, are you? Why not have female friends. If anyone is judging here, it's you. You haven't even talked to that girl but you like her. Really?? How do you know? You are judging her based on how SHE looks. Why don't you try talking to her and make sure that she is worthy of dating for you. I doubt the other girls would be mad at you for talking to the other girl, so long as you have some polite conversation with them. They have already opened the door for you, all you have to do is walk through it!
2006-12-07 11:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can understand why you'd be annoyed at people staring at you. However, you may be able to alleviate this problem somewhat if you try to think of it as a form of flattery rather than an attack. As the saying goes, the only thing worse than having other people's attention is not having other people's attention. :P
2006-12-07 10:54:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oook well obviously you must be very good looking if you're telling the truth because most girls won't just drool over guys so you can tell, if they do its more subtle. SOOO just be friends with them! see whats up in their life. and if they hint that they like you say "i like someone else, sorry". end of story!
2006-12-07 10:56:08 · answer #9 · answered by bree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well player first you gotta let the girls know you arent interested so when the look at you find a way to get eye contact and shake your head or lip "stop!". Then for the one you like make eye contact and smile and do your thing.
hope it helps and good luck.
2006-12-07 10:55:43 · answer #10 · answered by pat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋