okay, i'm in 9th grade and have never got my REAL first kiss, i know it's really sad and pathetic but i'm actually popular(as in popular and having alot of friends outside the popular group as well,pretty, and i have alot of friends, and a good personality, but i just havent found the right guy yet, i've dated, quite a few ppl, but i've never kissed anyone is that wierd? how can i get one and what are some tips
and right now i dont have a boyfriend, sooo........any advice lol
(by the way)most of my friends have kissed a million ppl and some of them have went all the wayplz help! thanks
2006-12-07 10:34:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
don't worry so much about finding him now trust me I have sevral friends who thaought they needed to find him and they only ended up hurt and their grades dropped....my suggestion to you is wait.....go through school and have fun don't worry about not being kissed it's fine especially as a 9th grader
so don't feel pressured what will happen is going to and you will find him someday....maybe sooner than you may think
2006-12-07 10:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by dark aran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only in 9th grade. but thats not really wierd, maybe because, their afraid of you cause your popular. try to slow it down a bit. express your own personality. coz, being popular, doesnt mean you have to be properly dressed all the time, or wearing too much make up all the time, making fun of others, do the things that you and friends usually does. try let the poeple see the real you or the soft side of you, some guys like that. maybe one day a guy would say to you:" youre the kind of person that i thought you were!" . maybe you could get your first kiss.
2006-12-07 20:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a freshman in college & I have never had my first "real kiss" either. Don't get in a hurry just because your friends are & definitely don't let anyone pressure you into something you aren't ready for. Me & the standards I uphold for myself always come first. A lot of guys actually prefer girls that are more conservative as opposed to those who party a lot. Simply because they make better girlfriends & are more likely to be loyal & respectful! Just to go a step further, when a man is ready to settle down & get serious about dating, looking for that "special someone" or whatever, a lot of guys would rather she be a virgin... and trust me, by the time you get to where I am, there are not many of them left!
2006-12-07 19:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by throttle2fast4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first off, you shouldnt think because youre quote on quote POPULAR, that youre going to experience everything. and with you not having your first kiss is one of them. i am a senior in high school and i got my first kiss in my sophomore year. if you are a pretty as you say you are, then you shouldnt have a problem. your kiss will come in due time. until then, dont be vain because even though you say you have a good personality, how i conveyed your question, says that you are quite shallow. maybe im wrong, but i hope you take what i said into consideration =]
2006-12-07 19:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by miss britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never force your first kiss to happen. It is something that you will always remember throughtout your life. Let it happen on its own and everything will go great. Trying to rush or force anything will just make you two feel awkward so don't worry about it. It doesn't matter if your friends have already been kissed, just concentrate on your feelings and don't worry about what other people have done. It will all work out so don't worry too much.
2006-12-07 19:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by PinkAngel711 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im 2 years younger than you and i dont really think it is pathetic. when i was in 6th grade everyone was hooking up but i was always single. then summer came and i started doing all of that. ive also been labled popular a few times and actually, ive really only kissed 3 people, hooked up with one and when it comes to kissing cheeks or hugging. i truly do not remeber.
reply to this column and i can help you? email if needed. lol
bye
2006-12-07 18:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by i'm ryan. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first kiss is a very special experience in your life that is meant to be shared with someone you really care about. If there is a guy at your school that you really like... ask him out, and let nature take its course. Don't ruin a moment like that on just anyone. Your first kiss... with someone you really care for.... Makes the kiss even SWEETER and more MEMORABLE... And that's the goal!! *wink*
2006-12-11 12:15:27 · answer #7 · answered by Toya B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't feel presured to do anything and when you find the right guy to share that kiss with then you'll know. Don't rush it. maybe your friends did but you don't have to. As to getting a boyfriend, just use your looks and flirt a little. But don't forget to let them see your personality too because any guy that wants you for your looks only will not be work kissing, or going any further with.
i haven't had my moment yet either but my guy and i are getting close i think and it will be special i know it!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-07 18:42:24 · answer #8 · answered by lougoose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u really esperate 2 kiss. u r popular n u can find many guys. dont push urself 2 kiss someone.u r just in 9th.u still have time.n remember when u kiss someone just think that it is your first kiss n it would be special 2 a special guy.
2006-12-09 00:39:16 · answer #9 · answered by SURYA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. you're only a freshman. so don't worry about it.
first kisses are supposed to be with someone you actually like and want to kiss. not just kissing anyone to get it over with or to be the same as everyone else.
it's kind of weird that there are freshman and middle schoolers that are having sex already.
anyways. no you are not weird for not kissing anyone yet. you're still very young and have a lot of time. you don't have to kiss someone just cus your friends are doing it.
2006-12-07 20:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by Jenniferrr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait....a little bit more. I am in the 10th grade and have NOT had my first kiss. You want your first kiss to be special, not because you were rushing or trying to be "cool".So what if you think your friends are ahead of you, they probably lost their first kiss and first everything to some boy through dares and peer pressure. Dare to be different
2006-12-07 19:23:58 · answer #11 · answered by kinkyafro22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋