I know there are plenty of great guys out there. why do I always fall for the ones who are macho *** holes it never fails. I always go for the guys who have a reputation of being tuff. I have tried to date nice guys and even though I know these guys are usually toxic I can't stay away n e one else have this prob?
2006-12-07 10:31:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The reckless ones are attractive- most of them... and a girl likes someone who can defend them... and defend them good.
2006-12-07 10:36:06 · answer #1 · answered by Aneesa S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad boys are more challenging, theres more drama and excitment, but we are realy hurting ourselves when we do that, because when we do fall in love, and marry these are not going to be the ones who will stay with us, and be faithful. these are the guy's who will always break our hearts, and cheat on us, and beat on us. if we knew the future of picking the bad boy's maybe we wouldn't do it. i use to go for the bad boy's, many many years ago, thought the good ones were too booring, or dorkey. well today i am glad to say i have a good one, after many years of picking the bad boys. we pick the bad ones because there may be a little bit of a rebel in us. a little bit of a non conformist. as we get older, and more mature, these type of men will no longer interest us.we will infact be glad we picked the other kind of guy whe it is all said and done.
2006-12-07 10:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because, women like a challange!!!
When the perfect nice guy is always there, and makes it so easy, it becomes boring and they look desperate.
Not to mention, bad boys give women the impression that they are strong, and by nature women want a man who can protect them.
The perfect nice guy would do much better, if he played hard to get. Make us work for him.
Dont make it so obvious that you like us.
Oh, and be smart (have a brain in your head), funny, respectful, and take care of yourself. Go to the gym, play sports, etc. Makes us subconciously feel you could protect us.
Leave the lame hangups in your childhood bedroom, where they belong.
2006-12-07 10:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The basic answer is you want to be with a guy who is not like your dad, or other older males you know. Most older guys are boring, they have no spice to them. A lot a nice guys are like that too, just kind of there..with no flare.
The bad boys on the other hand are totaly diffrent and that makes them exciting.(You sure don't want to go out with someone like your dad, for example). Bad boys have that 'edge' to them the girl can't get anywhere else.
2006-12-07 10:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got the same problem. It's something bout the bad a$$es that is so sexy!! My problem with the guys isn't so bad anymore. Now I find myself attracted to bad a$$ chicks too. My girlfriend is a bit of tomboy-She's hott as sh*t though! Go figure....
2006-12-07 10:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are intrigued by them. They seem a bit dangerous and it excites you. Part of you may feel that you can tame/change them. Good guys seem boring right now. I think in time you will get past all this and get yourself a good guy.
2006-12-07 10:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls like nice guys. I think boring girls go after assholes and more exciting girls like nicer good guys
2006-12-07 10:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by takeiteasybrah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe self-esteem? Do you, somewhere inside yourself, think you should be treated poorly? I've never been into bad boys. I just never had the patience for it. Besides that, I'm a princess and want men to treat me that way. ;O)
2006-12-07 10:35:59 · answer #8 · answered by shannonscorpio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The assholes are usually the most attractive guys.
I used to be caught up on looks until I realized it's the personality that's most important.
2006-12-07 10:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by Desiree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cause they're usually hotter lol. Not all girls like that I like a guy who doesn't give me **** and loves me...although I've never met one....lolz
2006-12-07 10:35:27 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋