There is a kid at school who is flirting with me. He is really nice and smart and athletic. He hardly ever talks. He isnt too cocky or loud and obnoxious. I really like him. He told me he liked me, but my best friend of 8 years is going out with him! What do I do if I like him back????
2006-12-07 10:17:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should talk to him and make him decide who he really loves if he truly loves you then he should dump her get over her and go out with you if he doesn't truly love you than you should tell your friend that he is like this so they can work it out but either way you are going to fight with your best friend unfortunately
2006-12-07 10:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mike H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all If this guy is your best friends boyfriend and he told you that he likes you! If You are truly a friend then you would let your best Friend know what is going on. And Seriously unless it is True Love then it would probably be worth it to leave this guy alone and just keep the crush to yourself if you value your friendship. Besides if this guy is able to do this to your friend then he will probably do the same thing to you. Girl Crushes come and go but a Best Friend Is hard to find.
2006-12-07 10:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess if its meant to be then it will happen. besides everything happens for a reason. But be careful and not let it out too much to your friend that you like him too. remember though, Friendship comes before a guy. Cause guys come and go but a good friend is once in a lifetime. GOOD LUCK!!
-Angel
2006-12-07 10:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, he is off limits. If he is your long-time best friend's boyfriend, then you cannot pursue it. Anyway, if he is flirting with you while dating her, then he is definitely not worth it. If he would do it with you, he would do it to you. In other words, if he would flirt with you while dating someone else, then he would do the same thing with someone else if he were dating you. Stay away
2006-12-07 10:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by danika1066 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do don't have him cheat on her, if she finds out she'll be pissed off! If you think she'll understand talk to her about it but if she won't understand then just tell him that you like him and wait until him and your bestfriend break-up.
2006-12-07 10:24:28 · answer #5 · answered by CNA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to decide how important you friendship is to you. Guys come and go. Is there not other guys that you like and like you?
2006-12-07 10:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by flower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Don't get involved.
2) If he is seriously flirting.. tell your friend... beware, she may not believe you... so just tell her to watch.
- good luck.
2006-12-07 10:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's meant to be it's going to happen regardless, now you have to respect your friend , and stay away from him.
2006-12-07 10:21:15 · answer #8 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋