a girl in school who i really love, is weired in a way and i dont know if she is like that because she doesnt like me or she is just that way!! when i talk to her on msn, she sends me hearts everytime and seems like she loves me too but when i sometimes call her or txt message her she does not answer even if i call 40 times, she does not call me back either, i asked her for semi this year and she first said ok but after a week she said my parents dont let me go. she told me to go to a movie on the weekend and on saturday i called her 20 times and she didnt pick up and after noon she txt me "i have to go to work sorry" and thats it. but she still talk with me on msn everynight and sends me hearts i know i sound like a amatuer but i dont know if you had this situation what would you do pleaseeeeeeeeeeee help me now i wanna do somthing tonight because if i dont hurry up ill lose her. a lot of guys like her. pleaseeeeeeee
2006-12-07 10:16:45 · 12 answers · asked by Mani & Nima A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she likes u as a friend and nothing more. if she was really interested in u she would return ur calls. She sends u hearts probably to play around with your mind. Okay when u love someonein d beginning of a relationship, they become unattracted to u. So show he that u do not care and u will c that she will come 2 u. Don't let ur feelings seem obvious or else she wil take u 4 a ride.
2006-12-07 10:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by Italian Empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, you seem young so i will give you some words of wisdom. RELAX, backoff and not just a little, ALOT. Valling a girl twenty times in one day is going to do nothing but turn right away from you. Beleive me i have been in your exact shoes. By the way you don't love her. listen all this is is a big crush. why not look at the girl next to you that has been eyeing you up since the moment you met her. Beleiev me bro you will have not only an easier but a happier time with her, again I know from experience i did exactly that. we had a great relationship and that girl i had the crush on saw this but by that time it was too late. give it a try and you will see for your self...let me know how it works
oh and the hearts thing that is something that she is sending to everyone she talks to on there. girls think that it is cute, try not to take it to heart.
2006-12-07 10:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by TheLegend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like she's just not that into you.(Sorry)
If she really really likes you, she wouldn't play all these games with your head. I think she would had called you by the 40th time, don't you think so? And she wouldn't have let you call her 20 times before texting you back and giving you an excuse.
Looks like she only wants to talk to you on msn, but nothing more. If you like her as much as you say you do, then just ask her out. If she says yes then she says yes, if she says no then oh well find yourself someone more deserving!
2006-12-07 10:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by UnknownJaneDoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you already lost her interest i mean if she was really interested i guarantee she would set up another time to go out
and the whole heart thing could be a signature template
she may not even know it is there so i would say move on find
somebody that does want your full attention and make sure you only text 2 times if they dont answer forget about it
2006-12-07 10:21:25 · answer #4 · answered by M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i know how she feels. She is probably just avoiding you at time, because maybe she likes you but she wants you to say it first and it can sometimes get frustrating having a guy you like not say anything and you'd rather avoid the subject/guy completley sometimes.
2006-12-07 10:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by Nobody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay this girl doesn't like you she is just trying to keep you until she finds another guy she is one of those girls who stays with aguy becuase she thinks they got money or is in a realationship to use you so she just waiting for the next guy with more money than you so get out of this realationship now that is the best thing to do she is what you cal a user and a major gold digger well best of luck love you
2006-12-07 10:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but she doesnt sound interested in you. And you calling her and texting her like crazy im sure is scaring her away.
2006-12-07 10:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing with you and probably will continue to do so. I don't want to sound harsh, but it sounds like she just enjoys the attention.
2006-12-07 10:19:12 · answer #8 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how u feel then maybe she will come around, give her a gift or something
2006-12-07 10:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by daytona_girl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could be cheating.....if that's the only thing you can talk to her on is IM then.....somethings NOT right!!! She has to be hiding something from you!
2006-12-07 10:21:18 · answer #10 · answered by Lh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋