Well..I could've sworn this guy liked me..maybe he does...I can't tell. Well anyways..I'm pretty shy, and everyone says that if I'm shy and I don't really talk to the guy I like, or let him know I like him, he might lose interest..which is true. So today I saw him, and I decided to give it a shot. He was reading a paper on the wall so I went over and asked him a question. I got nervous so that's all I asked. He stayed there for a few mintures then went to look out the window..then went and sat down by my desk. So I casually walked over and asked him what were the other classes he had..and he answered..and yet again I got nervous so I didn't say anything else. He stayed sitting there a few more mintures then got up and went to another group of people who were talking.
Well..last week, he came and asked what I wanted for Christmas, if I had a nice time on vacation, if I liked Starbucks and so on.He'll hold the door open and such. And yesterday he was eating a cupcake and he accidentally
2006-12-07 10:15:29 · 11 answers · asked by .: Brunette Beauty :. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dropped it and then he bumped into me and said “Shh…don’t tell the teacher Olivia” So he ran to the bathroom to wash his hands. Well awhile later I saw him in front of the vending machine and I stopped by to talk to him for a minute. He moved aside to let me get something, but that’s not why I went there lol. And also when we took pictures, he said “come on Olivia” for me to go ahead of him and then again to lean in closer. And today I left my purse in the classroom and I had left..so he ran out and called me [but the teacher told him to do that lol] But what confuses me is why did he leave after I talked alittle with him? Was he just nervous? I know it’s long, but I really need to know!!!
2006-12-07 10:15:45 · update #1
I think he like you, but he just not sure that you like him, just like the situation that you are in. Go and approach him more, you will find it more comfortable and easy. If you are not ready to ask him out yet, get to know each other more first! He is trying to know you more too.
He sounds like a sweet guy to me, hope my tips helped you.
Good Luck!
-G- -Hugs-
p.s Give him a Chirsmas gift, i think that's a good idea!
2006-12-07 10:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he like you? Well no one really knows at this point. All we DO know at this point is that you like him and to be honest thats 1 of the more important things. So what next? Well im a man and i'll put it to you like this. WE dont and shouldn't have to assume anything. (this actaully goes for men and women) So no matter how much you guys talk, no matter how many times you bump into each other, no matter how many times you meet up at the vending machine, if you dont tell him that you like him, then he will NEVER know anything.
So if you like this guy you really need to step up to the plate and just let him know. Trust me he will admire you before being open and forward. So you may want to let him know ASAP. There are millions and millions of women out there and im sure your not the only 1 thats attaracted to him. So you better jump on it while you can. This is called survial of the fittest. Or in your case, "Thats your man, but he just doesn't know it yet." Good luck!
2006-12-07 18:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by Latavish G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me liked your a matched pair (Like book ends) Neither of you knowing where to go with this or how to get there. Here's the thing you might want to show a little more aggression in dealing with this. He might be unsure because by the sound of the situations that existed so far, you seem un-interested, and more polite and cordial, than interested. Do something together that has nothing to do with school, i.e. Dinner, Movie, Party, Shop, "Tis the season", and a make believe brother may need a gift. (Hint)
2006-12-07 18:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by thugtwin1@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that you gave a lot of information. Maybe when he walked away from you when you talked to him a little, is because he may have been also nervous about you talking to him. Boys also get nervous. And maybe he doesn't like you. But try getting a friend to ask him if he likes you, but tell your firend not to tell him you asked would really ruin the whole plan, and so try knowing if he does like you. And he says yes to your friend it's all clear, but he may say no but he's answer is actually yes, try telling your friend that be honest, and if he wants you to know that he likes you, and sure trying to do something about knowing what to make your friend say so you'd know if it's really YES or NO. Hope this helps a lot!
2006-12-07 18:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by Abigail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be, I mean, I know you gave a lot of details and such but even that many details aren't enough sometimes. You could never know unless you ask him.
2006-12-07 18:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by Alterna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly try to find out if you have any shared interests me and my high school bf got together cause we both loved playing and trading Majic Cards (it was cool then lol) anyways that may help.
In my case I asked if he wanted to trade then play a game
2006-12-07 18:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the boy out for some lunch?
2006-12-07 18:18:48 · answer #7 · answered by Justlookin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I think you need to do is to talk to him for a minute then see if he is telling you the truth. I had that same problem.
2006-12-07 18:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by youpinkpoodle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, it doesn't matter if he likes you or not. If you want to spend time with him then spend time with him.
2006-12-07 18:19:04 · answer #9 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whats the question
2006-12-07 18:18:18 · answer #10 · answered by Lauren Lovely â?¥ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋