I am funny, cute, outgoing, talk to everyone, short and I am a good listener. How could then, can I get a boyfriend? Why am I always the friend and nothing more?
2006-12-07 10:15:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What else should I do, so I am not the "friend?"
2006-12-07 10:23:06 · update #1
It's just one of those things always the bridesmaid and never the bride. Keep chatting, listening, being cute and whatever else you do and someone will come along. It could be guys see you talking to lots of people and are intimidated and see you as a flirt. Don't change someone will come along when you are not looking and whisk you off your feet.
2006-12-07 10:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Trying to be something else and everyone can see right through it. Okay, maybe you are being yourself, but you are just plain stunning. Does that scare all the guys away? Is it your Independence? Suggestion would be to be yourself and stop looking for a boyfriend. Maybe he's right in front of you, but you're looking so hard you don't see him. Once you stop looking, expecting, one, one will fall right in front of you, so relax and enjoy. Best wishes and good luck.
2006-12-07 18:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by Gary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are a friend first! The boyfriend will come. Just be happy that you are so well liked and have many friends. Boyfriends come and go, and when the time comes you will probably have your choice and know the difference in a "true" boyfriend or one who just has "raging hormones". Take care!
2006-12-07 18:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Rea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a low self esteem. you will hurt if you think like that. maybe the right person hasn't arrived yet. its not the end of the world. you will find a boyfriend. there's a lot of fish in the sea, and you will find someone who will make you happy as much as you want. just wait
2006-12-07 18:20:24 · answer #4 · answered by Dianne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to practice your Ice Queen act. Cool, distant, unavailable. Hey, it's worth a try.
2006-12-07 18:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by martino 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time...and Mr. Right will come along, and sometimes a close friend can turn out to be him.
2006-12-07 18:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by Gordongirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient. Sometimes it takes a little while for something to happen. It's not u. It's the other people. Just be yourself and something will happen. Trust me.
2006-12-07 18:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by Aerosmithfan#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I don't know you, I can't answer exactly. You just haven't found the right man who is deserving of you yet. Good luck!
2006-12-07 18:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by Tenn Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you sound OK but maybe your just too of a Friend to like that way
2006-12-07 18:19:49 · answer #9 · answered by clair 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it’s because you possess such great qualities that it intimidate guys from asking you out!!! Don’t settle for anything less, keep on looking, he’s out there somewhere! :]
2006-12-07 18:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by UnknownJaneDoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋