2006-12-07 09:06:13 · 13 answers · asked by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that while no one should feel like they HAVE to change for the one they love, people can be inspired by the one they love and naturally want to change. But the want must come from within, not as an effort to keep the other person. The man I am dating inspires me to be a better person, and I did not make those changes as a weird effort to keep him around, I made those changes because he made me realize I didn't want to be doing what I was doing. He inspires me to be better, try harder, to be a better person all together because he makes it look so easy- funny thing is he says the same about me. So no, I would never change myself FOR the one I love, but I might change BECAUSE of him. =)
2006-12-07 09:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-24 21:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would only change if I was not happy with who I am. But what he has to say I would take it to consideration and I possibly would change if I agree with it. It starts with yourself.
2006-12-07 09:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldn't for the one i truly love. . . . i don't care how hot he is, if he doesn't like me for the way i am , he doesn't like me at all. . . that is the way that i see it. because if i acted strange and unlike myself, he would eventually want to meet my family and if i act unlike myself around my family, i may hurt my family and they may lose their trust in me and nothing in this world can make me more happy than the fact that my family is proud of me always, and to make them change their minds about me would be devastating. i would just say screw the guy that i '' truly love'' and meet sopmeone that i can be myself around and make my family and myself happy. . . . .
2006-12-07 11:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by hmwh_mwc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
change how? change bad habits? change personality-wise? change looks wise?
there are good changes and bad changes. if someone is wanting to change the core of who you are or tell you how to look/dress/be, that's not a good thing. if someone asks you to please control your bad temper because it upsets them, it might be beneficial for both of you. make sure you know which one you're dealing with in a relationship. it might be worth it to work on bad habits to save a relationship you really care about. it's not worth it to try and be someone you're not to hold onto a person who doesn't truly love you for YOU.
2006-12-07 09:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mish 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if your happy to change, only do it for u. I am changing myself at the moment because i want to but it will benefit both of us
2006-12-07 09:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can make small compromises in your habits & behavior in order to get along better... but you can't change who you are for any reason other than your own personal growth.
2006-12-07 09:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by zmj 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOOOO!!! Never change for anyone!! Only change when you feel its in your best interest and it makes you happy. That's what makes us unique. I'm sure you have qualities that more than one appreciate!!
2006-12-07 09:20:57 · answer #8 · answered by Isabela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if its for the better, like getting you off an addiction, but other than that... no they have to love you in any condition
2006-12-07 09:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if she doesnt like the way I am then she must not love me.
2006-12-07 09:07:33 · answer #10 · answered by The Dude 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋