ok so i like this boy at school... im 15... and like we have a LOt of classes together
and i really have a BIG crush on him and he found out somehow but i want to ask him out
but... he is alot shorter than me....
what should i do ...
how should i ask him out?
P.S. im not the kind that would ask him out face to face...
PLEASE HELP!!!!
2006-12-07 09:01:29 · 27 answers · asked by hORSE~gIRL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. Don't let the fact that he is short bother you. TAKE IT FROM Me. I am 5 eight and when I were heels, i touch the sky. lol. Go ahead, ask him out, if you like him, it really doesn't matter. If you are shy and don't want to ask him out face to face, than invite him to a party you are throwing or a bff's (if you ask her first) I'm sure he probly feels the same way about you. Asking him to a party will take off so much pressure, beleive me. eventually he will come around, and probly ask you somewhere. Than once you hang out some, it won't make u nervouse 2 talk 2 him. Than you could ask if he wants 2 b ur boyfriend. If not, than, that is his loss. Don't let it effect you. Continue hanging with him, guy friends are great to have, and he may end up liking you later. Just remember, don't b shy.
2006-12-07 09:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by puffalump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him out yet. Flirt with him in class and when you make eye contact with him don't look away stare in his eyes for a minute (a sexy stare not a creepy stare) Then ask him to eat lunch with you or go to the movies on Friday night. Make sure you go with a group of friends that way you both feel more comfortable. It's important for you to go with a group of your girlfriends but make sure that You are the prettiest of the group don't invite any friends that are better looking you! You want him to bring friends too. Be super cool to his friends without flirting you want them to say good things about you to the guy you like. Remember Don't Talk Too Much!!!! Guy's find that very annoying. But don't be quiet either. Good Luck!
2006-12-07 09:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by cweetepye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you want to ask him out face to face? Is it the height thing?
And shorter guys are awesome. They have alot of energey.
But anyway, just write him a note. Don't seem too needy and he'll be into it. Leave it as an open ended invite to date you. So it's really up to him. Don't beg either.
2006-12-07 09:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by iamsoboredandtired 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really quite simple, my dear. Firstly, you don't have to be embarrased at all. Girls have been asking guys out for yonks. Now, I think you're smart enough to want to test the waters first. So, either host your own party and invite him, or have your friend arrange a group get together somewhere, at your favourite restaurant or to a movie. Then you'll get an idea of where he is at this point. It'll be much easier to come to a decision then.
2006-12-07 09:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by Voldi G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pass him a note with your number and ask him to call you and go from there. Why are you pointing out that he is shorter than you? Is that a problem. Being that you are both young I could see how he wouldn't want to date a girl taller than him.
2006-12-07 09:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does height have to do with asking him out...if you like him you like him! if you dont like asking face to face then you should prolly get his email or aim or whatever you have and ask him that way just dont have a friend ask because that looks bad and will turn him away. Honestly when i was 15 i dated girls just so i wasnt single....so dont expect true love from a 15 yr old
2006-12-07 09:06:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to get what you want, you'll need to make the first move. There is nothing wrong in asking a guy out. In today's 21st century, the world has changed. Common, grow-up!
2006-12-07 09:03:51 · answer #7 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him out over the internet, or emails or anything like that, cause that would be lame. You could get his number and talk to him on the phone, then ask him out over the phone. you can just be causual and be like.. we should totally hang out sometime, there's a good movie i wonna see playing this friday night.... and then wait for him to respond
2006-12-07 09:05:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats it matter if he is shorter than u. my girl friend is half a inch taller than me and i am 14. but anyway,the guy should be da one to ask the girl out. and if the girl were to be the one to ask the guy out the best thing to do is to ask him out face to face because that way it would be harder for him to say no.
2006-12-07 09:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well look one thing you can do is write him
a letter saying how you feel about him. So in that
way you wont have to ask him face to face. I hope it works out!!
2006-12-07 09:04:51 · answer #10 · answered by ER88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋