I like this guy alex and i asked my friend to ask him if he would ever go out with meand he said maybe in like a flirty way while he was looking at me and then i asked him out the next day and he said i will think about it and tell you tomorw and then he hugged me and pretend to slap my face and then today i was running after him lol (he told me to) and when i was right behind me he like pretend to fall into me then just looked in my eyes but i had to go now im so confussed i really like him does he want to date me or sumthng or just be friends oh and today i was cold (i did not look cold or say im cold) and he gave me his jaket so i put it on i had it for the rest of the day lol. he puts his arm around me alot and holds me tight like he does want to let go but then he does please help me im so confussed and im asking him if he knows the answer yet tomorow please help me
2006-12-07 08:56:53 · 15 answers · asked by soul_surfer989 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first, always ask a guy out yourself. second, if he has to think about it, he's not worth your time.
2006-12-07 08:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by Aeryn Sun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey you need to read what you wrote. You sound so desperate. If a guy likes you he does not need to think about it until tomorrow!!!!! HE KNOWS. Get a higher self esteem, don't chase after a guy. Have them chase you! A guy does not like a girl that is not a challenge and it sounds like he can get you easy. I know all to well what you are feeling. When I was a kid I wanted to have boyfriends and be popular who doesn't? But don't be so needy...take it slow. You will understand when you grow up! Good Luck.
2006-12-07 09:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by brandi from texas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is going through the Jr High mating ritual with you. By the sounds of your question, and the fact that you had your friend ask him if he would be interested, that is about the age you are. He likes you. Don't worry about it so much. You are to young to be worrying about relationships so much. Plenty of time for that. Even if he likes you now and you "go out" with him, he will piss you off and you will break up anyway and it will be off to the next guy.
2006-12-07 09:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by Nuts 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, are you a guy or a girl? If you're a girl, go up to him and tell him to kiss your ***. If he wanted to go out with you he would've said yes. If he didn't he would've said no. He's yanking your chain. Don't know about you but I don't like getting my chain yanked - especially if they're that cute.
If you're a guy, go up to him plant a big wet one on him, and then tell him to kiss your ***!
2006-12-07 09:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by Voldi G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could either mean he really likes you and he could want it to seem like he's not excited...remember, boys think differently. Or he wants to be sure he wants to involve himself with you. Go on his body language when you two are together and when he sees you.
2006-12-07 08:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by Queen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
from my point of view he wants to go out wit hyoU! i dont know a guy who would do ALL that if he does not like a girl..your lucky!
2006-12-07 09:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by just_a_girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he is hoping for some he likes more to ask him out and if so, he will refuse you.
2006-12-07 08:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by Sabine É 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he has to think a bout going out with you it ether means that he has to see if he has plans or he is ignoring you. make sure though!!! hope he goes out with you:-)
2006-12-07 09:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by maisywaldo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably means he'll think about it and tell you tomorrow.
2006-12-07 08:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by aclockworkpotato 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he was really interested in you, he wouldnt need to think about it.
2006-12-07 08:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by Nickname 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋