how can i make sure that my boyfriend loves me?

Question

i love my cousin and he says he loves me i am his girl friend BUTwe are hiding this tell we make sure we are ready sometimes i feel he is crazy about me and sometimes i feel he cant stand me

Answer 1

you cant make sure, just ask him and trust in his answer...im speaking from experience when i say if you doubt his love after he has tried to express it to you he will give up, if he says he loves you and shows you this then trust in it...if you keep questioning it he will think, what is the point of trying because she doesn't believe me anyway.

Answer 2

The question you should be asking yourself is "How do I know whether or not I love my boyfriend?"

If you love him, it doesn't matter if he loves you. Consider what would happen if you found out he doesn't love you. Will you break up with him? Will you try to make him love you? Neither of these things will have any positive affect on your lives. Just be patient. If he loves you, you'll know it, but some people -- particularly guys -- guard their emotions. It may take him a while to have those feelings. That's good, though. A "wise man" named Elvis Presley once said "Only fools rush in."

When he loves you, you'll know it.

Answer 3

I dont think anyone can tell but you...
but things i do for my girlfriend that I love more then anything are... And I think any guy who cares about his girlfriend would agree to do these things?

1) does he open the doors for you?
2) does he offer to make you food?
3) does he tell you he loves you?
4) Is he always by your side?
5) will he watch a chick-flick with you( optonal but it shows he just wants to be with you, I just had to watch the ice princess. =(

Really, its all in ones opinion. Only you will trually know. If you dont think he does, he most likely doesn't. But you will be able to tell.
Good luck
-Jake =)

Answer 4

women just know if their getting the right vibes from their guy when their around. He will call for no reason, or you may be sitting or laying and not saying anything, just happy to be together. Sometimes their may be talk of future together, or meeting parents. Or saying things like" I need to show you that someday. It's goofy, dumb little things mostly that give it away.

Answer 5

to make sure that your boyfriend loves you, test him by doing certain things, like asking him questions. for example, "what would you do if i died today?" if he answers it the way you wanted him to answer, that tells you if he really loves you or not. if he doesn't say the right answer, then that means that he really doesn't care about you. also, it is also in his kiss. if you feel sparks between the kiss, he's the right one for you. but most of all, he needs to respect you. if he does respect you, treat you kind and shows affection, then that means he loves you.

Answer 6

There is no way to make sure that he loves you other than taking his word for it. If there is a reason that you are thinking that he does not, then maybe there are issues in your relationship that need to be addressed.

Good Luck!

Answer 7

He respects you. He respects your limits and ESPECIALLY your family. If he says he loves you but pressures you or always talks about himself, you might begin to wonder about his true love.

Remember love is a decision, not a feeling

Answer 8

if you guys go out to dinner and say theres 1 piece of food left and he asks you if you want it then he loves you if he eats it then hes not really there for you. trust me it really works i've tried it.

Answer 9

pay attention to the little things he does for you just because he wants to not because he has to if he trys to go out of he way for your well being then you are one lucky girl good luck

Answer 10

You can ensure this by giving him everything that he wants and needs and exactly when he wants them, especially at Christmas.