I really want to have a nice special honey moon with my soon to be husband but we live together and have had sex since we started dating can our honeymoon still be special i really wont one and want it to be good but i dont want it to be just another vacation! please help me out and let me know what you think!
2006-12-07 08:46:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
How about sleeping apart from your partner until you are married? If you are living together, start sleeping in a seperate bedroom or on the sofa or go back to living with your parents or a friend. Whatever the situation, be determined to abstain till the wedding night. This way you will truly be able to celebrate your coming together in marriage. You will have a feeling of accomplishment and will feel good about yourself for having excercised self-control, a good personal quality for individuals planning to marry. By doing this you will be able to plan ahead for the honeymoon- Buy yourself some slinky lengerie to help add a little more excitement for both you and your husband. Perhaps a few different items for your honeymoon. But for the wedding night, something very sensual. Make a plan ahead, let your husband know you have a plan and be prepared to stick to it. Upon arrival at your motel room, light a couple of candles and play some romantic music in the background to set the scene. Open a bottle of bubbly and pour a glass each. Before sex, take a soak in a warm scented bubble bath. This will allow you both to relax and feel refreshed after the reception- It won't be the same if you give in beforehand so try to withstand the temptation to jump straight into bed. By holding out, your appreciation for each other will be hightened and the beginning of your life together as a married couple will be truly memorable. Ask your hubby to get into bed first while you finish dressing into your bedroom gown. Dab on a little perfume. Make a staged entrance... If you follow through on this advise, you won't be able to resist each other and you will certainly enjoy your honeymoon. -All the best for you both!
2006-12-07 09:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by Lyncean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, it won't be special. Well, I mean my wife and I went through the same thing. We'd already been living together for years, so the honeymoon was simply a nice vacation for us.
You can try and throw in some romantic angles like candle lit dinners, or whatever, but really, it's just a vacation.
2006-12-07 16:55:16 · answer #2 · answered by Uncle Pennybags 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me and my husband have had sex since we were dating. We haven't lived together, but we spent every waking moment that we could together, and many nights together. He went to Iraq after our wedding, so we didn't have time for a honeymoon. On his R and R, we flew to Miami (South Beach) Florida and spent 8 days alone. We had a 4 star hotel, chauffeured car from the airport, flight and everything for $2000 on Expedia. It doesn't have to be expensive to be great. We spent time at the beach, seeing the town, and being alone in our room. Just remember that its your honeymoon and if you have it a little while after your wedding, its even better because its like you've got the "newly married" feel again.
2006-12-07 17:09:16 · answer #3 · answered by linzee_06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want it to be special it will be...doesn't matter that you have already had sex..its the 2 ppl involved that make it special. but something you could try is maybe a week or two before the wedding and honeymoon, not have sex. restrain as much as you can...that way everything leading up to it will make it that more intimate...hope that made sense
2006-12-07 16:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a new location is great way to make things special. get a honeymmon suite, champagne and sexy lingere. the fact that you're now husband and wife will make it special. do things youve always wanted to, have romantic dinners, massages, and relax
2006-12-07 17:34:57 · answer #5 · answered by DanielleNichole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! You will be away from home in a romantic place, just the 2 of you...it will be great!
2006-12-07 17:08:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try going to an all inclusive place like in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico... its so nice and different and they have this hotel called the RIU palace, its all inclusive and it kinda looks like a castle... its totally romantic
2006-12-07 18:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by totallylovableandinlove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋