2006-12-07 08:43:10 · 29 answers · asked by nikkiholmes101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are asking this question again? You just reworded it.
Like I said, if she was truly your friend she wouldn't be flirting with your boyfriend!
2006-12-07 08:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by GreeneyedCowgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll..seems like there's a bit of trouble brewing up. ofcourse it's goin to be difficult to tell her off if she's a very good friend..she might just look at u innocently and say that all she was doing was being friendly with your guy! And she's just flirting with him, right? or does she have any plans of stealing him from u???
wht u can do is tell yor fello about how u feel and say that you'll appreciate it if he maintains a distance from yor flirtatious friend.
and girly, i think u should let her try her tricks, afterall, what matters is that u should be secure about yor relationship.
and try this if u wanna get a little wicked. don't lose out on any chances u get to tell yor 'good' friend what a sweetheart your boyfriend is, and all of the lovely romantic things he keeps doing for you. And how many times in a day he tells u how much he loves u and misses u!! ^_~
2006-12-07 17:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by jaded angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should confront her about this, because this kind of behavior is unacceptable. Do not involve your boyfriend in this, deal with her, and with alone. Talk to her and ask her why she does this (obviously she has the hots for him, no offense), and ask her to stop this if your friendship means anything to her. Do not get me wrong- I'm not telling you dump your friends as soon as you find a boyfriend, but rather to examine what kind of friends you have. Ask yourself this- would you have flirted with you best friend's boyfriend? According to the answer you provide to this question, you will know exactly what you need to do.
Good Luck
2006-12-07 08:48:36 · answer #3 · answered by LaLaLand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... that quite is a sticky problem. If I were you i'd search for suggestion from from the guy first and make it sparkling that you do not have any particular pastimes with him and that your perfect pal skill the international to you. do not come off threatening even with the truth that. enable him imagine and make the decision for himself even if to save on flirting with you or be dependable to his female friend. If he maintains to play round then tell your perfect pal about him. yet when he stops then only faux he turned right into a lost puppy who got here upon his earlier abode :)
2016-11-24 21:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE'S NOT YOUR FRIEND IF SHE FLIRTS WITH YOUR MAN NUMBER ONE. GOOD FRIENDS EVEN IF THEY THINK YOUR GUY IS CUTE AT FIRST ONCE THEY SEE HOW MUCH YOU LIKE HIM THE GUY AUTOMATICALLY TURNS INTO A COUSIN OR BROTHER TYPE. IS FLIRTING BACK..? I THINK YOU SHOULD CONFRONT BOTH OF THEM SEPARATELY BUT DON'T ATTACK THEM JUST LET THEM KNOW HEY THIS ISN'T COOL. AND HOW MUCH DO YOU VALUE HER FRIENDSHIP AND HOW INTENSE IS IT WITH THIS GUY? CAUSE A REAL FRIEND WOULD PLAY HERSELF OR YOU SO I'D KINDA DISTANCE MYSELF FROM HER POINT BLANK AFTER YOU TELL HER WHAT'S U KEEP THEM TWO APART AND PUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP ON ICE FOR A FEW.
2006-12-07 08:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by sky g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend and tell her it is making you feel uncomfortable and you dont want your boyfriend to get the wrong idea about her and think she is trying to cause problems for the two of you and you dont want anything to come inbetween your guys friendship. good luck!
2006-12-07 08:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not all that good of a friend then and you need to tell her leave your man alone and find her a man of her own because he is with you not her so she needs to stop trying to be with a your man and stop trying to be you because a real friend would not try taking your man or flirting with your man
2006-12-07 08:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY-- TALK TO HER ASK HER IF WATS GOIN ON-- HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN FRIENDS -- IF SHE REALLY IS YOUR FRIEND SHE SHOULD STEP BACK AND SAY SORRY-- PEOPLE SAY DONT LET A GUY GET IN BETWEEN YOUR FRIEND SHIP BUT GIRL ITS YOUR MAN -- FIGHT FOR WHAT YOU WANT DONT LET OTHERS ESPECIALLY YOU "FRIEND" TAKE HIM AWAY FROM YOU --- IF YOU DONT TALK TO HER SHES GONNA KEEP FLIRTING WITH HIM --- TALK TO HIM TO ESPECIALLY IF HE FLIRTS BACK -- IF HE DOESNT THEN I WOULDNT WORRY THAT MUCH YET I WOULD STILL TALK TO HER. TALK TO HER BEFORE ITS TOO LATE
2006-12-07 08:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your boyfriend respond in a way to invite her to continue? I would take her aside and ask her to chill with her behavior. If she doesn't, she's not a friend.
2006-12-07 08:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by Koko Loco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you call that a good friend!? Honey that aint no good friend! Let her know how you feel and let her know good friends dont do that to each other!! If she keeps doing it, dont hang around her. You dont need to put up with it!
2006-12-07 08:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by ClaralubsEli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋