I mean is there any possabilities to get married if we are christian
2006-12-07 08:35:49 · 22 answers · asked by nena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well, even if yall aren't really related- yall are still considered brother and sister. So, i would say tell him what u actually feel for him and let ur parents know. Oh and try keeping in mind on hoe people will look at you if yall were more than just brother and sister.
hope i could help.
2006-12-07 08:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by yayamtz7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although there is no possible blood relation, morally you are brother and sister and should consider that fact alone. I know your fellings are probably strong at this point, but you will need to find a way not to cross the line if you haven't already. To answer the second part, nothing prohibits you from marrying christian or not. You may want to consult a counselor or religious advisor about this situation. I'm curious about something, does your sibling feel the same way?
2006-12-07 16:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by str8nochaser 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand he's not a blood relative...but he is a relative in name and legally you two are brother in sister. This is not a healthy thing nor is it good for the family. It could tear the family apart too.
Technically not incest but in the eyes of the law...it is. I won't even address the christian side of it, since I don't believe religion is the issue. One would have to assume there is a God....and I don't necessarily believe one exists, except in the minds of mankind.
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You need to back away and find a new target of your affection...but it sounds like he hasn't discouraged you either... so tell him it's wrong and it ain't going to happen
2006-12-07 17:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds a little weird to me. I realize you aren't blood related but haven't you been living together as brother and sister? As far as you being Christians I would think the church would look down on it since you would be destroying the traditional family. Maybe you should talk to a counsler at church or a minister. Does he feel the same way about you?
2006-12-07 16:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by Ask Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your question is No, you should not like him as a boyfriend- When it comes to family- step children, half children or adopted, they are still family.
There are many people out there and so many you haven't even met yet. Love your brother asChrist would have you love him, not in any other manner. Mr. Right will come along when God feels ya need to meet him
2006-12-07 16:39:56 · answer #5 · answered by B B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I think you should forget about it you ahve a whole life worth of living it's a sin to marry I think becasue you were made a fmaily and don't worry you'll find a guy jhe's not everything no offense because he's yuor brother though.
2006-12-07 16:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you ask a "christian", they'll give you the same answer that they would for ANY question that's asked..."No, that's evil. You can't do that."
Now...let's talk about reality. Bottom line, if it ain't blood, it's ok.
You have the same issues to deal with like family members accepting it and getting along.
It depends on what you two want.
2006-12-07 16:40:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-12-07 16:43:13 · answer #8 · answered by clueless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if there is no blood relation between the two of you, that's family. It's not right to feel that way about a member of your family.
2006-12-07 16:38:09 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, how old are you?
second, the law prohibits close relatives from engaging in sexual relations. as long as you can prove your origins, you shouldn't have any problems marrying an adopted brother. except your family might have problems with it and disown you.
2006-12-07 16:45:06 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋