Okay here' s my problem: In a few days I'm going to be 20 years old and I've never been kissed! I have also never had a boyfriend! I've been on two seperate dates (in my life-time) that didn't make it pass it the first date! And it's not even the fact the guys don't approach me because they do, and most of them are really cute, but I get really nervous and find some excuse to rush off! LOL! I admit it, I'm a geek! Something is wrong with me! Do I need to read some self help books to learn how to interact with the opposite sex or something?
2006-12-07 08:34:05 · 14 answers · asked by KasaiB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good for you for having discretion! don't rush into kissing someone just for sake of having done it. just be yourself and wait for a guy to work toward stealing your heart. then you can kiss all you want. you have plenty of time and it sounds like you are worthy of having something special!
2006-12-07 08:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by shanequinox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU'VE GOTTA RELAX!!!!!! it seem as if you become so nervous and flustered when interacting with the opposite sex that you act like a total spazz. but don't worry this is a problem that can easily be corrected. when a dude approaches you take a deep breath and give him a big smile. keep in mind he's just as nervous as you are because he isn't sure how you will react. just chill out and listen to what he's saying to you and respond to it. don't worry about being witty just be yourself. if he's with it things will work out. okay. but just try to be easy and hopefully he'll see that you're cool as a fan. good luck
2006-12-07 16:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Running away is probably the smartest thing you can do--lol. Just be patient, the right person is out there for you---however you just need to be more relaxed around guys. If you are too scared to let them ask you out, why not try asking someone out--for a friendly event (if you need backup invite more friends until your comfortable). I think you know what the problem is and you just need to fine tune it so you can get into the dating world---however once your in--you may wish you weren't. Good Luck!
2006-12-07 16:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by pmbrundle74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, it sounds like your standards are too idealistic. Instead of looking for the perfect man, look for a guy you are compatible with. I know someone who is 23 in the same boat. However, I believe she is a closet lesbian. Keep an open mind and lose the immaturity.
2006-12-07 16:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by Your #1 fan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just have more self confidence. Don't get worried talking to a guy. If they didn't want to talk, they wouldn't have approached you in the first place. Just be a little more outgoing.
2006-12-07 16:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same dilemma as you, only I'm a guy, so my solution will be different. Just let the guys into your heart if they approach you.
2006-12-07 16:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by aclockworkpotato 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!! nothing is wrong with u. like my sex education teacher never kissed a guy until he proposed to her. just wait on it. it will come
2006-12-07 16:37:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong. dont rush it when the right one comes along you will know when its time to kiss.
2006-12-07 16:47:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothings wrong with you, you probably are a bit of an introvert. yes there are good books out there you can read.
2006-12-07 16:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to relax a bit...perhaps you need to date the intelligent guy instead of the good looking guy
2006-12-07 16:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋