2006-12-07 08:33:24 · 36 answers · asked by nikkiholmes101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait..dey shouldnt even be a friend if dey doin dat...
2006-12-07 08:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by Ree Ree 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Flirt with her boyfriend in front of her... or if she doesn't have a bf flirt with someone u know she likes in front of her. See how she likes it. If she doesn't get the hint then just come out and tell her you think she is flirting with your boyfriend and that its not something a friend does to another friend. She still doesn't get it? Cut off the friendship.. friends don't do that to eachother.
2006-12-07 08:38:22 · answer #2 · answered by Bethany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth does hurt.The best thing to do is to have a quiet word.Just explain to him he is being a little tactless and this has surprised you.Tell him you have always regarded him as a kind and caring person however recently his behaviour has been out of character and could he please try to be a little bit more understanding as you are now in a relationship with someone else that you really care about. He should then change his behaviour.If he does not then slowly let him down by making excuses to part from his company whenever you can.He will get the message. Always stay calm and in control.Never rise to the bait and get into a fight.
2016-05-23 04:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were a super close friend I'd be like, "Hey, it makes me a bit uncomfortable when you flirt with my bf, I know it probably doesn't seem like flirting and you're just being nice but if you could try to tone it down a bit I'd feel so much better, thanks!" If she IS flirting she knows it so if she's like, "Oh I'm so sorry! I dind't think I was flirting, I'll tone it down" but then DOESN'T - DITCH HER. You want a friend you can trust and how can you trust that friend if she's always trying to get your man. Ya I know chicks before dicks but if this is supposed to be your girl, how can you trust her with your man if say you leave town for the weekend and he calls and is like, "Oh, I bumped into so and so last night" it'd be SO nerve racking...
2006-12-07 08:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by Cynthia 604 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting isn't bad, providing the two people doing the flirting are not being cruel about it. You might want to ask yourself if you are being jealous as well. You can be forward in you rinytentions without being rude by saying, "Please stop flirting with my boyfriend. It's becoming annoying, maybe you should find a boyfriend of your own..." Your boyfriend shouldn't be encouraging the flirting if he knows it's getting to the point where it is becoming more than irritating. I'd have a discussion with both of them myself.
2006-12-07 08:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by Robin A 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think, depending on your relationship with this friend, it should be okay if you are direct with and tell them "look, i feel really uncomfortable with you flirting with my boyfriend, and I think you need to stop". but then the question might arise if you are jealous? don't be jealous if this guy is worth being with, it shouldn't matter if another girl is flirting with him. but for the sake of saving a friendship it's best just to be honest and tell your friend to lay off.
2006-12-07 08:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by missing home 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. A friend who flirts with you bf, is no friend in the first place. Start distancing her out of your life with immediate effect.
2. If your bf isnt actively discouraging your 'friends' advances, his own intentions ar ein doubt.
3. Take a call on the situation yourself. Clearly demonstrate your disapproval, without putting it in those many words. I dont see any purpose in discussing it with your 'friend', though talking to ur bf might help.
2006-12-09 05:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by Zephyr Nexus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend in a calm tone, use her name to get her attention: Lisa, if I decided to be honest with something that bothers me or makes me feel a bit uncomfortable, would you promise to try to help me feel better about it and not let it affect our friendship?
Tell her that you really adore her friendship. Let her know that due to your insecurities, you are not ready yet to comfortably witness innocent flirting with your boyfriend, even if its totally harmless and there's no hidden agenda.
Make her feel that it is you with the problem and you need her help. Dont point the finger or you'll wreck your friendship.
2006-12-07 15:46:35 · answer #8 · answered by choc_flav 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off Biotch or else!
Seriously, if she was your true friend she wouldn't be flirting with your boyfriend. So I would say the friendship isn't two sided.
2006-12-07 08:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by GreeneyedCowgirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her front and center. It seems to me that you are flirting with my boyfriend, therefore you ARE flirting with my boyfriend. Stop it or I'm gonna knock you out.
2006-12-07 08:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by Ya Ya 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, you will politely go up to your friend and tell them that you would truely appreciate it if they stop flirting with your boyfriend. if that dont work then you go to your boyfriend and talk to himm about the situation.
2006-12-07 08:38:10 · answer #11 · answered by Chelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋