All i know what to do is say hi and hello that is it and i try but i do not see them talk back and i do not know what else to do........................
2006-12-07 08:22:26 · 18 answers · asked by flyd.rpap1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask question about them, like what their interest are or goals in life, stuff like that. Most women love to talk about themselves and that should get things started.
2006-12-07 08:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by April L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about how you talk to your friends. When you are excited about a movie or some new song you just go up to them and ask them if they heard or saw it. Music and movies are universal and people of all ages have opinions and are eager to talk and share them with others. Start out with small talk about the weather you can move into discussing movies and music and before you realize it you will be comfortable talking about different subjects the same way that you do with your friends or other new acquaintances that are not girls and in this way a person that you would feel self conscious around. I hope this helps a bit if you need anything else let me know. Best of luck to you and I am sure you will be fine because you sound like a pretty interesting mature person who will do well.
2006-12-08 16:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, girls are really not much different than boys. Just take a deep breath and know that the girls are just as afraid as you are when it comes to talking! That is why you don't see them talk back because they don't know what to say!
Start with small conversation like the hello and Hi's, and slowly go from there. Talk about something that you think might interest her. That is a good start!
Good Luck!
2006-12-07 08:25:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, here's the deal. I like this guy, and the other day he was talking to my friend and I, and then my friend just started talking to someone else, so he was kind of only talking to me. From what I recall, he was talking about something funny that had happened at a party he went to. I was ecstatic, that he was talking to me, and we were laughing together and it make me feel so good. I would suggest just talking about what you like, finding out what the girl likes, talking about that, say something funny. Let them get to know you, and you them, see what happens.........good luck!
2006-12-07 08:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are really weird. We like men to take control, so don't just say Hi. you have to make a conversation. Like pick a subject that is in the news that may be very interesting and talk to her about that. We like smart men but not boring men.
I hope this helps.
2006-12-07 08:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by Nelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first off approach them but remember to act naturally. nothing turns a woman off faster than a man who is clearly not being himself. start the conversation with a hello and a genuine compliment. ask her her name and then be honest with her and let her know that you're interested and would love to get to know her better. ask if it's okay to leave your number with her or have hers. keep a smile on your face and a pleasant tone and thinks should go smoothly. don't be overbearing or pushy. just relax and let everything flow.
2006-12-07 08:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything, if a girl doesn't say hi back, she's not interested. (sorry) or maybe you need to speak up. Make eye contact that way you know you got her attention. Smile.
2006-12-07 08:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something about them that catches you eye (not breasts!). Figure out why it caught your eye: (it reminds you of something, you are curious about it - really). Then ask them to tell you about it. Keep asking questions - people love to hear themselves talk. Instead of trying to make yourself interesting, make them interesting - by asking. Be honest. If they ask you why you are interested, have a real reason. Doesn't have to be your #1 reason, just be a real one.
2006-12-07 08:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by rkangell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attempt speaking approximately chewing tobacco, you will get greater than a number of mileage out of that. Ask her first what flavour she likes and then what flavour her mum chews. Ask her if she has a kind of little spit tins with a lid to hold in her bag and if she hasn't grant to purchase her one.
2016-12-18 09:26:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must hear this a lot but be urself. u dont want some1 to like for who ur not becuz then u have to live up to that all the time. talk about things that intrest u and that u think about her. compliment a girl or wat she wears. BE URSELF and u can do anything is my motto!!!!! hope this helps :D Good Luck
2006-12-07 08:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋