I just started seeing this guy recently that I really like A LOT. The thing is, he has WAY less experience in the bedroom than I do. Should I be turned off by this?? How can I keep myself from getting bored being his teacher?? I like it when the guy takes control most of the time. What do I do??
2006-12-07 08:20:50 · 15 answers · asked by Miz D 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well its about who control who but its about who will help who
u can teach him and give him ur experience to be able to choose the best bedroom
just make ur life as sharing with him in thinking it will be cute
2006-12-07 08:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him! Tell him what you want and like. If he is willing to make things happen work with him. Older women do it all the time with younger men. If he aint trying to learn then I suggest you talk sex next time before you get naked to better asses where a furture partner stands. It also comes down to how experienced you are. It seems you may be a little selfish. Sharing is caring. Sex is hit or miss, unless you take time to tell your partner what you want. Open communication is best for both parties. Closed mouth does not an "O" acheive. Satisfaction works when your both comfortable. Intuition helps too, though hearing and knowing are always better than guessing. Alleviate boredom by demonstrating what you like.... monkey see, monkey do! Watch a porn together and point out what you like. Options spring forth abundantly for boredom to get in and get busy, not lazy! Exeperince is just a fancy word for practiced. Reserve sometime and go until it makes sense if your that determined.
2006-12-07 16:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
teach him what u like that way he gives it to u the way u like it. and u can have fun with it but don't do every thing for him let him do something hands on experience and just be patient in the end u will be having the best sex because its the way u want it and maybe he'll start to get curious and try something new with u. HAVE FUN!!!
2006-12-07 16:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by jerm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like it better when he takes control. Don't teach, just let him know when he is doing what you like. Let him know the things you don't like also, but not during. Worst comes to worst go rent some porn and sit down and watch it together as a learning aid.
2006-12-07 16:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by Castle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once was like that with my girlfriend except I was the one who was less experienced. It worked out really well for both of us because as I learned what to do, I learned what she really liked and so it was better for her also. I think you should give it a chance. I think it will work out better for both of you.
2006-12-07 16:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by bballking 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch porn with him.
have a couple long and slow love sessions where you grab his hands and place them where you want, get into the positions you want, and let his nature do the rest.
during foreplay, tell him your fantasies in GREAT DETAIL.
everyone loves talking dirty
(PS porn rules)
I just had an amazing idea! make a porn with him and tell the parts you like the most. The most important thing is to reward good behavior, NEVER PUNISH (unless its spanking)
2006-12-07 16:26:01 · answer #6 · answered by angelicusbeefus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh.. well it turns me on when a girl is like that
2006-12-07 16:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by Calvin K. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gucci Girl is right, so I strongly recommend you follow her advice.
2006-12-07 16:24:26 · answer #8 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teach him what you like and turn him loose.
2006-12-07 16:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by jonnyexcel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well we send him a student more his speed and me and you go take care of that other problem
2006-12-07 16:23:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋