I really dont like these feelings im having for my friend...thats a girl...advice?

Question

I am really attached to one of my friends! We get into dumb arguments all the time and stop talking for awhile but within the third day i give in because i hate not talking to her! We have really good times when we're together but when we are not talking i get very depressed! Its krazy because i cant go three days without talking to her but i went a whole two months without talking to another chick. It seem like i am putting alot more into this friendship then is normal because we get into arguments like every 2 weeks and its krazy! I dont think my feelings for her is normal because i care way too much! As she does the same but she says she is tired of coming up to me after an argument so unless i come and talk to her we dont talk but i just feel like im having withdrawls if i dont talk to her!

Answer 1

Sounds like you may be in love or falling, hum? and your scared of these feelings of emotions that are trying to control you. Why you argue every few weeks I don't know? Just a wild guess but maybe it's because of a conflict with emotions and you need to know how to deal with them instead of letting them control you. Try and figure out whats causing such silly arguments then evaluate the situation you are in with her. Do you want more out of this friendship? or are you just needy to her? If you don't stop the silly arguments your friendship may deteriorate.

Answer 2

i dont think that that is unusally to have feeling like that for one of ur close friends cause me and my best friend cant go one day without talking so yeah it ok

Answer 3

It seems to me that you like her, a lot. It also seems like she likes you too, otherwise what's with all these fights/disagreements? People who secretly like each other usually fight because they are frustrated with their feelings for each other. Ask the girl out!

Answer 4

are you attracted to her? email me we can more

Answer 5

I say talk to the girl and see wat she says.