Okay, well I'm a freshman and everyguy i've dated broke up with me like less than 48 hours later. (this last one atleast gave me three days) I'm not ugly. So i don't know what is up with them! It breaks my heart and i dont know what to do or how to handle it. The one who just broke up with me is still my friend. But it just gets so hard. What should i do??? How should i handle it??
2006-12-07 08:07:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, My personality, I'm funny, outgoing a little quite and timid, I'm on of the nicest people in my school. I don't like to hurt people. So i would say i have a pretty good personality And second, I'M STILL A VIRGIN! I don't give myself to everyone!
2006-12-07 08:30:29 · update #1
You are a freshman in what-- high school or college? If it's high school, then you are dealing with very immature little boys-- girls mature faster-- they have to-- they are the oh-so-lucky ones to have babies.
Boys are slower and they are more likely to be brought up to STAY immature-- look at their role models, for heavens sake.
So, you are dealing with virtual retards in their teens, and you will have to wait for them to catch up emotionally and psychologically.
Don't hold your breath....
2006-12-07 08:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by ladsmrt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy you've "dated" broke up with you within 48 hours? Uh...define "date". Do you mean that you went on one date with them and they never called you again? Or do you mean that you slept with them once or twice and they stopped calling you after a day or two? Neither of those situations mean that you were "dating" or that you were actually "involved" with the guys in question. It means that after one date or sex, they didn't want to get involved. Find one guy. Take time getting to know him. Don't sleep with him. Find out if he's interested in having a relationship with you. Let things develop slowly. Just take your time. You will eventually find a nice boyfriend.
2006-12-07 16:15:23 · answer #2 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep going until you find one that doesn't break up with you in 48 hours! If you are only a Freshman don't worry - you have a long way to go.
2006-12-07 16:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by Paul H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you actually know a guy before you start going out with him. if you have enough of the same interests, you should be able to last a while. just don't bug the hell out of them. that will probably cause a break up. and remember, your only a freshman. i'm a junior and i've still only ever been in one relationship.
2006-12-07 16:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by Shamus O'Larry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well don't take it to hard guy will be guys. Last year i dated so many different guys and i wasn't serious about any of them and wasn't just getting with them to hook up i wanted a steady relationship and i now have one, me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months and we're totally in love, you just have to find the right guy, your only a freshman you have the rest of your life to find that perfect guy for now just look for a cutie and HAVE FUN!!! :)
2006-12-07 16:15:20 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ chelsea ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it sounds like BS, but looks arent exactly everything. You need to have a personality to back it up.. and if thats not the case with them, then that means there probably looking into getting some ***. =(. Sad but true.
And if THATS the case then..
1 ] you did give it to them and having felt they had gotten what they wanted.. they left..
2 ] You were respectable to yourself and DIDNT give into them, thus them deciding "grr, eff it, I will just go find some other easy girl.." kind of thing.. and left.
2006-12-07 16:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by kinky toes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to high school.
Boys are immature at this stage in their lives.
I started dating at the age of 16 and didn't find anything even close to serious until age 18.
I am now 19 and just recently lost my virginity.
Give it some time, you're still young yet.
2006-12-07 16:10:47 · answer #7 · answered by Desiree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One answer for ya. If they are in freshman in highschool they are going to immature like that. Just find other things to preoccupy your time like school, friends and family.
2006-12-07 16:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by cutelil_bubble21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is it important to have a boyfriend.why do you need a guy to define your self. nothing is more attractive than a woman who has self confidence and Independence. enjoy your freedom for now ...get well educated. the love of your life will choose you for you..i pretty well guarantee it.
2006-12-07 16:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by rob l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well they used u for sex
everyone slept with u told his friend that there is a girl u can sleep with u and act as her bfriend and so on
its ur problem because u give ur body easy
just try one time never have sex with anyone of them and u will discover who loves u for who u r and who love u for sex only
2006-12-07 16:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋