I've been called cute, sexy, hot, a babe, but mainly cute. I can honestly say I don't remember the last girl that approached me. I've put myself out there and I don't get anything. I know I'm not an ******. I'm a nice guy and I've been told I'm also very charming. So what the h*ll gives ladies?
2006-12-07 08:00:51 · 17 answers · asked by dreadxlove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
becuase dey think dat u are TOOOOOO CUTE...i kno it sounds weird, but i think dat if dey try den u will cheat on dem, becuase dey will feel a lot of gurls lyk u
2006-12-07 08:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by Ree Ree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, be confident in yourself. Don't just say that people call you cute, sexy, hot, etc...say that you are these things. And then believe it.
And woman are just as afraid to approach men as men are to approach woman. And, most of them want to be approached rather than be the person to start up the conversation.
Check in with who you have been approaching. Is it what you want or what you think you want?
2006-12-07 16:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by denverwazzup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start approaching the ladies! If you are constantly called cute and nice, that's not really a good thing. Girls don't really like nice guys, we like ones that are a little cocky and confident and know what they're doing. Start taking charge and talking to them first. And don't be scared--if they don't like you, at least you got experience for next time.
2006-12-07 16:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be you're too passive. Quit waiting for the ladies to approach you and just smile and be friendly and go talk to them. Oh and don't get all hostile and defensive if women aren't clawing all over you. Hostility isn't attractive.
2006-12-07 16:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, girls are intimidated if a guy is extremely cute...just like guys rae afraid of rejection, girls are too....try to be aproachable, dont OVERdress, or over primp yourself, it also sends the message that you care so much about yourself that you wouldnt appriciate a beautiful girl.
2006-12-07 16:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by chicwitpurpose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the kind of women that approach men are usually gold digging whores. what kind of girl looks at a guy and says, he looks like a sweetheart. Its human nature for the guy to approach a girl. Also, your body language says everything. Are you sitting with your legs spread out? you should. Is your chest out, back straght? It should be. Smile when you think no-ones looking, i promise someone will notice.
(PS dress for success)
2006-12-07 16:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by angelicusbeefus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hot guys intimidate women. they think "oh he's too cute, he'd never like me." Also, most women like the guy to be in the driver's seat (at least to start) I know i like it when someone takes initiative. Make the first move and ask out someone you are interested in. Once the balls in her court, it's out of your control
2006-12-07 16:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by should be working 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to be the one approaching the women?? Women like to feel like you're putting yourself out there for them, chasing them or making them feel special. Why do you feel as though they should come to you?
2006-12-07 16:03:14 · answer #8 · answered by fedupwithu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u sound really intimidating maybe if u became a little more aproachable like make it feel like a girl can talk to u. we get nervous and it isn't easy to talk to a guy, for most of us any way. hope that helps.
2006-12-07 16:03:26 · answer #9 · answered by bchbumsparadise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are not working hard enough, you could try going to a bar or club, find a lady you think is cute and buy her a drink, maybe you could can try that to let her know that oyu are interested.
Good luck!
2006-12-07 16:04:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋