For a relationship, not just a booty call. Assuming you've just completed college and work where there are not many girls. And religious events are out of the question. Bars/clubs are usually filled with sluts. So where??
2006-12-07 07:59:58 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh, and can you provide details of where?
like "speed dating" ive only seen that on tv, never even heard of anyone ever doing it in real life.
2006-12-07 08:04:49 · update #1
Don't go to clubs and pubs. They are full of women who wear tarty clothes an drink like fish and degrade themselves.
You can usually tell by what a girl wears and if you are lucky enough to know her then by the way she acts.
Dark hair, covered up, nice looking, no tan. If you see one walking around and you think she looks classy find an excuse to talk to her.
Here's how to tell: You ask her for her number if she gives it really easily then no, if she likes the look of you and gives it easily still no, if she likes the look of you and gives you reason to think she is interested but says that she doesn't normally give her number like this and it's strange yes (good if you see her again and tough if you don't).
But having said that the only girl I know who isn't a desperate slut and looks nice and classy is me! So have you got a pen there? (Only kidding girls don't go giving me jip).
2006-12-07 08:09:54 · answer #1 · answered by The Face 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There seems to be some underlying problems here to me.
1. You just finished college and you are asking this question now? What did you do when you were at college?
2. Why are religious events out of the question? Are you an athiest? If so I'm sure there are clubs for that.
3. If the bars you go to are usually filled with sluts maybe you might question why you are going there. What you also might look at is why do you feel you can make the assumption that the girls there are sluts. And, what makes you qualified to judge other people like you are doing.
You have to really look at the question you have just asked here and ask yourself "do I really know what I am looking for?"
2006-12-07 08:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by ike11754 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your approach. You can't "pick up" someone for a relationship. Join some clubs, go to parties, whatever it takes to meet new people. Make friends with the girls, and then you're on your way to a relationship.
If you're really having trouble meeting girls, take some classes that would have a lot of women in them. Like a dance class, or yoga or something like that.
2006-12-07 08:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by Victoria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the finest position? both a bar, nightclub or party. it extremely is the position maximum choosing up takes position. even with the undeniable fact that to get the most perfect women, you won't be able to easily wait till they're inebriated reason being good searching takes quite some self administration that enables you to take care of themselves extra perfect round alcohol. So for them... everywhere the position you may strike up a communication: many times at the same time as anybody is idly waiting for some thing like espresso or on the laundromat.
2016-11-24 21:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by hazelbush 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is reversing their patterns now. You will definitely find sluts in church. It didn't used to be that way but it's reality now. Community service...girls want to be gangbanged to cut short a few hours their judge sentenced them. The best place would really be online places like Y!Answers. There's plenty of respectable ladies here. If you like what someone has to say then im her or email her and strike up a conversation.... See I hadn't read any comments yet and ryan c recommended Y!Personals there's another one.
2006-12-07 08:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, do not use the words 'pick up', secondly, make friends first then you will find someone. Our society is so filled with sex these days that the 'dating' scene is now only about getting laid. You need to work on friendships first, anything more should develope naturally, otherwise all you will find are sluts.
2006-12-07 08:02:32 · answer #6 · answered by Kristina H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might sound funny, but I did it and it worked, Try a online dating site. This really opens the doors to women around you who are single and looking, just make sure you tell them that you're looking for a relationship. I wouldn't tell you which one is good, because there are so many for each person.
2006-12-07 08:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by slyshewolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
through friends try excepting all invitations that come your way. For example going to the mall, the movies a football game a friends gathering. The library go with any excuse to find a book, just go everywhere where your invited were you know obviously there won't be slutty girls.
2006-12-07 08:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by calimexgirl!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Libraries
2006-12-07 08:01:39 · answer #9 · answered by puttputt_19134 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you quit trying to find someone you may be surprised if one finds you... I found the love of my life at a place that we mutually worked at... but I had totally given up on the idea of finding anyone..... Good luck to you.
2006-12-07 08:03:15 · answer #10 · answered by Alisha S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋