do you constanly compare all your relationships to an ex lover?

Answer 1

well not an EX lover...my current...i say how he is soooooooooo much betta

Answer 2

Why would i do that? I left all of them for a reason... and hopefully, I'm with the new person for a reason. Comparing them, is unhealthy. You should just look for, or be with someone that makes you happy.

Answer 3

i did for a long time, but recently stopped doing that because i found someone so wonderful! i say, erase the ex boyfriend board and start over fresh. that way, your eyes will be open to everything!

Answer 4

Of course at first, but only on a superficial level. Its a way of learning from your mistakes and triumphs. Once you get further along, all of that fades away, I think.

Answer 5

no you have to let go of the old ones and think about the new. don't compare because that's not fair to the new person. everyone is different and everyone has different faults.

Answer 6

not constantly, but at some things, yes..but all you can do is enjoy your current partner and try and forget your ex. Pretty soon, those comparisons will go away.

Answer 7

I probably would I have had only one in the past 25 years.so I really can't.

Answer 8

well not all of them but i used to love my ex alot so it wouldnt be da same wit my other boyfriends cause u can never find da perfect guy again dat u loved alot

Answer 9

I must admit, i did that in my first 2 relationships, sadly they did not last.

Answer 10

Nope.