1 girl is making my life misery
shes in my class and i have such strong feelings for her
i cant sleep at night i can only think of her
she has a b/f
and i respect that. i know it would be wrong to come in the way but i just want to be a close mate to her
she treats me so horribly but she dont notice it. everyone keep telling me to leave her dont talk to her and ive tried
everyday we keep etting further away
i know she dont give a damn
i hate not being close to her. i love her soo much
my heart literally hurts whenver i think of my situation
what shall i do?
ive helped her in many situations and have never got a thank you
whenever she goes on holiday everyone would get a hug except me i if im lucky would get a handshake
on MSN she totally blanks me
PLZ NEED ADVICE!!!
be serious
thnks for your help
2006-12-07 07:45:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This may be hard, but your going to just have to forget about her.
first of all, you respect that she has a boyfriend so that's a good start, don't try 'get with her'.
secondly, if she's going to ignore you, never thank you, and be a unsociable person to you, then there's no point.
Just find someone else to like as much or do a hobby to keep your mind busy until you don't feel a need to think of her.
2006-12-07 07:51:01 · answer #1 · answered by pyromaniacniall 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-30 06:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by winkles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really do need to forget her. If you help someone and they treat you like that, you don't really want to be the poor sap in the relationship with her. Just feel sorry for her boyfriend and move on. There's plenty of other ladies out there.
2006-12-07 08:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by kenniemcooper 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey I just looked at your questions and you have posted so many about her, it seems you just cant stop thinking about her. Please stop, youre obsessed and that, although normal for teenagers, will only hurt you. Believe me.
Now, try to be with friends, keep yourself busy. Find yourself proper friends that can respect you. I know its hard, but just stop trying with this girl and let go... I had the same problem as you but ive been so busy recently and it has helped.
PLEASE STOP OBSESSING YOULL ONLY HURT YOURSELF. Im not trying to be nasty, listen to me.
2006-12-07 11:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you should tell her how you feel! even though she may blank you even more, but then at least she will know how you feel. And it will make you feel loads better....
If i didnt tell the person im with now how i felt i wouldnt be getting married.... and she wasnt single at the time....
Its always worth atry dude!!!
2006-12-07 08:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by Zaski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must like misery and pain, first of all, she has someone significant in her life and that does not include you, so this is a no brainer, leave her alone and stop being a bug-a-boo.
2006-12-07 07:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by odaat_1218 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this has happened to me too.
and well i think that you should follow your heart and show her that you love her.
but life's hard she has a b-f...but just remember to follow your heart and dreams.
good luck!
2006-12-07 08:17:28 · answer #7 · answered by i <3 xou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not interested look for someone else!
2006-12-07 07:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋