ok me and this guy have been talking for a while now i really like him alot we went to his house couple of times but everytime when were there we always ending up arguing i wonder why is that but like one day when we made out then it jus became to having sex it was all good and all but like was it just for that the reason why he wants me there but i agree to go to his house because i wanted us to talk but then all of that happens and after the sex we argue and i jus started crying is it a REGRET please help me out and sorry if u cant understand what i wrote
2006-12-07 07:41:35 · 16 answers · asked by vLiiCiiOuS&YoUnG oRiiGiiNaL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to most guys it is hunny
2006-12-07 07:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he doesn't respect you...
Did he just want you for sex? Maybe, maybe not. If you were arguing all the time, why'd you sleep with him? Are you sure you didn't use him for sex? I mean...cmon, it takes two to tango. You said it yourself... you went over there and always argued.... then one time you made out and had sex...then you argued again. Why'd you have sex with him knowing that you always argued?
I'm not trying to piss you off or make your life worse or anything...but blaming this guy for having sex with you, just isn't right. You saw the red flags.. you shouldn't have had sex with him in the first place. For all we know, in his eyes, he figured he was getting b*tched at enough, he may as well benefit from the situation sexually....since you were willing.
What should you do? Move on. Learn from your mistake... don't have sex with someone whom all you do is argue with. There's no point of regretting it....just learn, live, and move on.
2006-12-07 15:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this what you want??? Not if you're crying in the end. Let go of the loser ! A real man would be interested in more that just sex. He would die to hear you talk about anything because he would want to know "you" and what you're about. If all you want is sex then keep going to his house beacuse that is all he would expect from you and then don't cry about it. BUT if you want more, then it's not hard to tell you want it from someone else !! Good luck.
2006-12-07 15:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by nikkid6910705 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~He causes an arguement before and after sex? He's setting you up for sex. Deep down you know you're being used and you regret it, that's why you cry. He doesn't seem to care that this keeps happening, it's always the same, so you need to make it stop!
You deserve better than him! Don't call him, talk to him, OR go to his house anymore.~
2006-12-07 15:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey.
if the guy argues abt small issues that seem insignificant and always argues wit u 4 no reason i say he just wnts2 get in your pants. i duno i dunt know him so i guess its hard 4 people 2 tell u how he rlly is . but a guy that makes a girl weep her eyes out , isn't doing a good job wit his girl , she shud feel happy being around him not the other way round.
hope helps a lil
cya
2006-12-07 15:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but all he wanted was sex. next time he calls you. you should tell him you will come over but before you have sex you start telling him the way you feel if he dose not like it then you make him think your going to have sex then walk right out the front door and don't look back. leave him all hot and bother he will not want to make you mad ever agian. my girl did it to me and i don't want to make her mad ever agian.
2006-12-07 15:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And I thought only most East Indian girls lacked self respect
2006-12-07 16:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by sudheesh s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, sounds like all he wanted was to get in your panties... If you can't do anything but argue or have sex, then move on...
2006-12-07 15:44:46 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you and you are letting him.
Dump him and look for what you have lost and let him take from you.
Self Respect.
Good Luck!
2006-12-07 15:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let that horny b-itch go u making yo self sad by f_ucking him go cuz it is 4 sex
2006-12-07 15:47:05 · answer #10 · answered by lostgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh babe talk to him and be honest show him your feelings and if he is decent he will be honest with you good luck and cheer up. x
2006-12-07 15:45:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋