my ex ended our relationship a couple of weeks ago due to "his doubts". i however did not believe him because to me that was a ridculous reason. i believed that it was because he wanted to explore his other options in college. while my mind is telling me he is wrong for me, my heart still longs for him, more than he will ever know. i confronted him with this theory and he denied it to a t. i also told him i thought he ended it because he wanted to control me and to have control in our relationship. he was less than enthused. i also told him that if he really loved me, he would tell me everything. he responded but not in the way i wanted him to. i want him to tell me the truth but i feel that he's convinced himself that doubt is what really ended it. it's funny. he wasn't the guy i thought he was. he's controling and manipulative and he just can't see it. advice?
2006-12-07 07:21:54 · 6 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to add to his controlive nature, while we were breaking up, he told me if i were to date anyone anytime soon, he would know that my feelings weren't true. wtf?
2006-12-07 07:22:33 · update #1
He's just not that into you. It doesn't matter why he ended it: he ended it! Move on. Stop communicating with him and stop wondering what he wants/thinks/feels/says/means! it doesn't matter.
2006-12-07 07:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.. be very happy that you broke up. Listen to your head on this one. He wants to control you even if you are not together anymore.. jeeeessshhhh
2006-12-07 15:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe is his right. absence makes the heart grow fonder! and if u guys take this time out to be away from eachother and are still able to come back together then you know its ment to be!!
2006-12-07 15:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by yacayac2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is too controlling move on to something better. sometimes we waste our time on loving someone that we think is right for us when in actuality we are missing out on the on that is right for us
2006-12-07 15:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's that good game. He knows you're head over heels for him. You don't have to settle for what he's willing to offer.
2006-12-07 15:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by CeCe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is full of s***! he doesnt want to be with you, but he doesnt want you to be happy! sounds like a little B**** to me! sorry, but you need to move it along and get rid of him!
2006-12-07 15:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by smitty4626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋