Usually he's really into me, but for some reason, when we were on the bus going home from school, he didn't talk at all!! The only thing he actually said was "Hey, um, Jess--never mind." I didn't think anything was wrong but my friend Sarah actually brought something to my attention even though she was just joking around..she said "Jessica, I think Jake's going to break up with you." So Jake's friend Jamie said, "Haha, yeah right. Where'd you hear that? You're just trying to make her nervous." So Sarah said "Why do you always have to ruin the fun?" I acted calm but I wasn't--after all, he had been kind of ignoring me. When we got off the bus, I waited for him as usual, but I was talking to a friend and he walked right past me, much more hurried than usual. He didn't talk to me when we were walking home, either. I seriously think something's up...maybe he's actually considering breaking up with me?
2006-12-07 07:17:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a guy sometimes I am very upset and angry about something and I start replying the incident in my head, that I totally neglect everybody around me. I guess that was the case. You might show care about him by asking "What's on your mind?". The idea of breaking up is not unexpected though. By time you will know but do not do something stupid.
2006-12-07 07:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by Bondok 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him alone and ask him. It sounds like he wanted to tell you something, but didn't because there were people around. Guys his age sometimes are a little shy when it comes to talking about emotional stuff and don't want to look like a dork in front of their friends. Talk to him alone and you'll probably get your answer.
2006-12-07 15:33:44 · answer #2 · answered by Mitch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is ignoring you or does not pay any more attention to you or there is lack of communications between you two. It is about time to dump him. Better be the first to jilt him. i t will be good for your female ego. And if you do stop running after him again. There are lots of fishes in the ocean. . Move on.
2006-12-07 15:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to tell. Just talk to him and ask him what's wrong, guys have this problem where they can't talk to their girlfriends around their friends (and i mean like serious talk) so just talk to him in private it could be something eles he's dealing with and could have nothing to do with you!!!
Good Luck! :)
2006-12-07 16:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ chelsea ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey..hey hey.......Dont just rush off into a conclusion!!!! First straighten things out!!! Just ask him...sometimesguys tend to be a bit rude when they have probs as well..... (this comes with experience) they sometimes get mad at the WEIRDEST things!! Try and be optimitic for now......U should just ask him straight away. Be polite and lovable.....just ask him y he's pushin u away... ask him wut u did wrong.... And see what happens....If he's breaking up with u, ask why... then see if its reasonable or not.....if its reasonable then try to figure things out to set it right...or else TO HELL WITH IT! Hope everythin works out well!
GOOD LUCK!!!!! :)
2006-12-07 15:29:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him! Sounds like he wants to, but is trying to ignore you, so that you would break up with him.
2006-12-07 15:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask him if he wants to break up with you.by the way you told your story it kinda sounds like he wants to break up with you but he doesnt want to hurt you.so if i were you i would just ask him about it!annway good luck i hope that helped.i wish u the best!! :)
2006-12-07 15:25:37 · answer #7 · answered by roxygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, see whats going on.....if he doenst respond, walk away and drop him.....not worth your time sweetheart! trust me!! you can find someone much better and more worth your time.....and your in high school or something? you have plenty more opportunities to find a guy......say goodbye to the loser
2006-12-07 15:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by bombshell brunette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he has a lot on his mind and doesn't want to bother you you with it. try talk to him and don't listen to others follow your own heart
2006-12-07 15:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So break up with him. He doesn't sound like much fun anyway...
2006-12-07 15:21:26 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋