I met this girl and built up the courage to talk to her. Things went well and we had some coffee together. She asked for my number and I got hers. When I called for a date she said that she would love to hang out with me...but she said she had a boyfriend. I figured that it was cool and that I liked her company anyways. We went out for some food and then I showed her my place, we had a great evening, and her boyfriend never really came up in any conversation. She seems pretty interested in me, but she is just an awsome girl and I may be misinterprating her actions. We both enjoy eachothers company, IS IT POSSIBLE that she doesn't have a boyfriend and she was just saying that to see if I just wanted some ***? She is younger by about 3 years, It is driving me insane please help :)
2006-12-07 07:09:56 · 17 answers · asked by nottoobad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am that girl you are describing! But maybe her boyfriend is away (maybe in jail like mines or in the service). But sometimes when I used to meet guys I would tell them that so that they would know that I'm not interested in anything long-term or serious, maybe just friendship. But sometimes it means that we are open to maybe leaving the relationship and seeking a new relationship. I know, I know, its confusing! But if it appears that she's REALLY into you, maybe she's not that serious about her boyfriend.
2006-12-07 07:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either way she's either a liar or a cheater. Do you want that in a relationship? What happens if she is seeing someone and breaks things off with him for you. Wouldn't you worry that your time would up at any moment. And if she doesn't have one and said that to trick you out of trying to **** her and leave her. Aren't there better ways to say that? Like hmm I don't know... "if you're looking for sex you won't get it here, I'm looking for something more than that." I say be her friend but I wouldn't trust her so much.
2006-12-07 07:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by LoveLeighe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's driving you insane then the answer is Find Someone Else.
The right girl won't make your head hurt with confusing talk.
The right girl will dump her current boyfriend to come be with you.
Also the right girl won't go out on dates while she already has a man.
2006-12-07 07:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by neyoneyon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell. It's possible that she's making it up though--the next time she mentions the boyfriend try asking her how he would feel if he knew the two of you were hanging out. If you really like her you could always ask if she's considered changing boyfriends. Good Luck
2006-12-07 07:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off she must not be very serious about her boyfriend if she's going to another man's house. So I would say it's possible she doesn't have a boyfriend but I would also say it's possible she just wants some attention she's not getting from him. Ask her what's going on....
2006-12-07 07:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by ~*~A~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will never be any monogamy between you two.
Think about it, she told you she has a boyfriend.
Even if she is lying, that's just it.
She is a cheater or a liar or both.
What made you talk to her in the first place, she is obviously still immature.
This is a no-brainer for you. You know how to handle this.
Trust your intuition.
2006-12-07 07:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by Leo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only one decieving you is you.
If she is saying she has a man when she doesnt its to get you to back off, not to come on to her, and knowing that you should respect it either way. If she has a man, respect him.. you dont want karma to bite you in the butt and your woman to have an affair on you. If she doesnt and is timid, respect that.
Geez.
2006-12-07 07:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by Curly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either way she is deceiving you and this is the worse of all possible relationships. Find an honest person.
2006-12-07 07:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her let her know how u feel..be str8 up with her...ask her out on a date or to the mall..dont mention those words..(boyfriend) just ask her to meet up with you at mall rink movie..and see what happens ..ok grasshopper.
2006-12-07 07:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by My Dixie Wrecked 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may just be trying to get to know you without ou thinking that something may happen. I have done this for that reason. she may be trying to get to know you a little, without you expecting anything from her.
2006-12-07 07:14:50 · answer #10 · answered by lankytallgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋