2006-12-07 07:03:28 · 10 answers · asked by highlander 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
cheer her up she'll feel much better with ur suport and also u'll feel better 4 making her happy too. treat her 2 something she likes, it doesnt have 2 b spending money on her but time is just as gd. maybe run her a nice warm romantic bath with lavenda insence in the room 2 relax her and just pampering her with a full body massage.
2006-12-07 07:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by blossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the same exact thing right now, depressed partner who pushes me away, but you have to keep in mind, you did nothing wrong, its the illness, and they need to be the one to decide to get help and to want to change their mental state. For a while I wondered why my partner wouldnt just get help, and want to go back to the loving, wonderful person she really is, but then I realized, you cant control what others want, and you cant make them want to snap out of it. They must make that chjoice, all you can do is voice your opinion in a supportive, loving way, and then decide what you need to do for YOU and YOUR mental health. Dont go down with the sinking ship....its one thing if she agrees to go get help, but totally different if she wont. You can always be there, but you may want to end the actual relationship itself, being a care-giver can drain you, and your own life.
2016-05-23 04:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Encourage her to see a Doctor to get help for her depression if you can talk to her about it. A depressed person doesn't want anyone around especially someone who cares about him/her. A Doctor can start her on therapies that will help her. Depression doesn't go away by itself. There is no snap cure. Be there for her when she needs you, but don't force your attention on her. She may get very angry or begin to harbor bad feelings towards you.
2006-12-07 07:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by stargazer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i also say give her ,some space.but let her know your available(if u r).be supportive in a gentle way,let her know ya care but also she needs her space to deal w/ things her way.maybe she's pushing you away,scared that her depression is gonna pull you away outta frustration w/ what she's going through.i don't know.....be supportive,available,& don't tell her to snap out of it.depression is already painful enough itself.good luck,& i hope she gets better soon.
2006-12-07 07:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by dysfunctionalyMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her space. If she is depressed then she needs time to figure out how to deal with it. If you are on really good terms ask if she would like to discuss her problems.
2006-12-07 07:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by Edith Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some time, she is going through a tough period in her life now and she needs some space. Let her be alone, and once she gets better and if she loves you she will get back to you for sure. Don't pressure her!!
2006-12-07 10:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that you are there for her and give her some space, and when you have the chance try to cheer her up and make her smile, she will love that( I hope!).
Good luck!!!
2006-12-07 07:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by scorpion prince89 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
buy her some flowers and candy, tell her she looks pretty, take her out to dinner, and tell her you love her. if that doesn't work and she really is depressed consult a doctor.
2006-12-07 07:10:00 · answer #8 · answered by wannaknowtoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some flowers which will cheer her up.
Pray to God and he will help immediately.
She probably has pms...so buy her chocolate too.
2006-12-07 07:05:35 · answer #9 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you love her.
If you do, stay with her, Help her.
If you don't, leave, maybe that's what's making her depressed.
2006-12-07 07:09:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋