Ihave a friend that is a boy, but nothing more than a friend. I like him more than that. I have a few problems.
1. I dont know how to ask him.
2. My friends hate him and think hes stupid.(these are like my best frinds and dont want to loose them over a guy.)
3.I dont know if he likes me.
4. it change our friend ship for ever.
5. I never have had a bf before so it would be a big deal.
If you can help please do. but relise i am only 13 and have never kissed or had a bf before. This is an all new thing for me. And dont say flirt with him belive my i have flirted my brains out. And how can i tell him with out acualy telling him or make him aask me first?
2006-12-07 07:00:05 · 9 answers · asked by Dancer24 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all dont worry about what your friends think about him, they will learn to deal with it. If you like him enough come out and ask him dont wait around for him to ask you cause he might me in the same boat, It might change your friendship but don't you think it would be worth it to find out. Just wait till u two are alone and tell him how you feel its hard but you will never know until you try it. Dont come straight out though and say you like him, just hint around that you like someone and see what he says..
2006-12-07 07:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by luv_meforever_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#2 answered your question as it is.
But there is a way of finding out more. Just see if he would go do something with you? Your friends need to get a grip, your life is yours not thiers to dictate. A true friend will allow you to be you and still be there in the end regardless!
It is so hard at 13 and I wish you luck. Just be confident and try doing what is gonna make you happy, not your friends!
Best wishes!
2006-12-07 07:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with your age being as it is the lady like and sophisicated way of doing things are to focus on your education keep him as only and friend and stay tight with your friends as well EVERY BODY that smiles in your face is not always your friend you are young and is still trying to find yourself and getting a bad REP at this early on the school years is not a good idea because girls or more mature than guys what if he became your bf and then you two got on bad terms and the rest of the school year he would spread visous rumors about you making you school years just horrible I'd say just take it easy never let them see you sweat and always remain a young decent lady. and everyone else will see you the same way ....... what i am saying bf are not all they are cracked up to be trust me .....
2006-12-07 07:08:17 · answer #3 · answered by slpry L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 13 you have a long way to go. So don't start with game if you like him let him know. See if he into you! And real friends will be with you no matter who is your bf.
2006-12-07 07:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by colebrown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't to lose your friends over a guy but are afraid your friends will abandon you if you go out with him then your question has already been answered. Don't go out with him.
2006-12-07 07:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
# 1) you don't love him. Always know that it is infatuation and not the end of the world if it don't go your way. #2) decide what you want to do and live like it.
2006-12-07 07:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by Snap J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep doing what you are doing...or write him a letter that says you like him. If he does not like you anyway think of it this way at least you do not have to worry about "losing" your friends. If he does like you and your friends have a problem they are probably Jelous or like him as well do not sweat them..if they were your true friends they would not care who you liked.
2006-12-07 07:04:45 · answer #7 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont wanna lose your freinds so i would talk to them first and say give him a chance cause he may be a nice guy.then talk to the boy get to know him a little more see if you REALLY like him.
2006-12-07 07:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him! it's simple... i'm only twelve and i know how! confront him but dont make him uneasy. if he likes you it wont ruin your relationship, it'll make it stronger. ur friends should back off. this is ur decision.
2006-12-07 07:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe,
2006-12-07 07:06:09 · answer #10 · answered by luv ya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋