I really like him!! He is older so Im not sure how to approach this!! I dont want to scare him off, but would like to know if he wants more than sex!!
2006-12-07 06:44:44 · 23 answers · asked by michele 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Today.
2006-12-07 06:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by gdf888 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it has only been sex without a relationship at this point. If this is true, then he definitely does not want a relationship, especially after its been going on for over 2 months. Are you saying that no one calls the other and there is no talk about what you like and dislike? Again, its been two months, if he doesn't care to know more about you other than what position you want to try next, then i'm sorry its never going to be more than that. Remember, a guy can have sex and keep it at face value forever. But for you my dear, I see that you've been waiting for love to emerge. Cut your time spent on this seed that just won't sprout, shine your light on another seed that just well might.
2006-12-07 14:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by mulderlx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's been 2 1/2 months and he hasn't said anything, sorry but all he wants is sex, and he's gonna get it until you decide otherwise. Don't get pregnant in the process, you'll never see him again. Or I could be completely wrong, ask him straightforward, there's really no nice way to put it. Wait until after sex, then drop the question, you'll know by his answer if you can get past the fact that you really like him. Best of luck.
2006-12-07 14:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by guicho79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow im in the same situation, i met this guy 2 weeks ago, and t
1 week after we had sex,
the second week we had sex,
i dont see him anymore cuz he got fired from his job where i met him at.
but he got a gurl and kids.
im not the only one he cheated with
i cant approach this and tell him what are we doing.
cuz he told me straigt up its just sexxxx
DONT APPROACH THE SITUATION IF U KNOW YOU WONT GET AN ANSWER YOU LIKE.
YOUL FEEL REJECTED AND LIKE AN ***
2006-12-07 14:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yesterday
2006-12-07 14:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think its a little too late to ask him where it going. you should of talk to him before hand. now it alittle to late, he knows that he's getting sex and thats all he probably wants. so if you like it this way, than not having at all. don't say nothing. but you shouldn't lower yourself down . find someone whos going to respect you for who you are and not what you can do for him. but if its really bothering you, talk to him and ask him thats the only way your gonna find out how he really feels about you. good luck.
2006-12-07 14:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to know if he wants more than sex then ask him BEFORE you have sex with him again. That way, you will get your answer and can decide if you want to continue on in this relationship the way it is.
2006-12-07 14:46:48 · answer #7 · answered by tipper 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is appropriate to ask after a couple months, since presumably it is starting to feel "serious". Go ahead. If you scare him off that is actually good because it means he wasn't into going farther anyway.
2006-12-07 14:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by Julian A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just my opinion, but if you are comfortable enough to have sex with this guy, you should be comfortable enough to ask for more. And it will be just a matter of time when you really fall for him, and he just wants sex.
2006-12-07 14:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by amanda r 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him , let him know since he's older it might be wise to settle down with a pretty younger girl for soon his age will alienate him from youth and the honey you have to offer!
2006-12-07 14:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask now if you want to know. There is nothing wrong with wanting to know where a relationship is going.
2006-12-07 14:46:47 · answer #11 · answered by williamcoulson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋