well my friend, who i cherish very much, is going with 3 guys and she wants to keep out going with more guys but she said that she can balance it and then i told her that she better stop before she ends up with no one, but she doesn't care and i wonder how she does it.
2006-12-07 06:41:35 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that you should take her to a therapist and see whats wrong with her, it may be possible but what is she meets a new guy and he knows whats going on and that's the love of her life, how will she deal with it?
2006-12-07 06:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by etnies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are all assuming that she's having sex with all of these guys and it doesn't say that anywhere in the question. As long as she hasn't made a commitment to "go steady" or become engaged to any of these guys she can date as much as she wants. Hopefully when it comes to sex she's smart enough to know she needs to choose just one. Guys do this all the time and they're called "ladies man", a woman does it and she's immediately labeled a s-l-u-t. Not fair guys. We have the right to sample the candy a little too.
2006-12-07 06:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by Joanne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 21:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's pray that your friend doesn't contract any STD's like Herpes, HIV/AIDS, Gen Warts. Eeww!
Usually, when someone (man or woman) has multiple partners like that, it indicates that they have a need for affection that was missing in their earlier years.
I would just be her friend and warn her about STD's. If it comes to the point where she becomes reckless in her quest to have more boyfriends, you may want to think about distancing yourself from her. When she starts to spin out of control, she might take you along with her.
Good luck to you and your friend.
2006-12-07 06:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by Mr.Know-It-All 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible to cheat on an entire Nation at a time.
What goes around, comes around. She will begin to mess up with names, places, dates and times and if she's unlucky, one of those guys may decide to take matters into his own hands.
Then she may regret trying to have her cake and eat it, too.
2006-12-07 06:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can call that cheating since she hasn't established a monogamous relationship. I sure hope the guys all know that they aren't the only one. Personally I'd call what she's doing being a slut and probably whoring herself too.
2006-12-07 06:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by poof10958 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she needs to straighten her act out. Or else she is going to get caught and looked down at, plus cheating is wrong anyways. No one should do it. And your right she will end up with no one.
2006-12-07 06:45:35 · answer #7 · answered by nothing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i almost missed out on the love of my life by doing this....she will find out the terrible consequences soon....jealousy is a terrible thing and it's not fair what she is doing tothem, she may need if for the selfesteem or to think she is pretty but she's not being hip or cool, she's being mean to 3 or more guys!
2006-12-07 06:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she doesn't commit to any one in particular your friend is free as a bird to go out with and sleep with, as many men or women as she wants.
Lighten up. You need to find someone yourself.
2006-12-07 06:46:51 · answer #9 · answered by Liligirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends..
is she leading any of them to believe that they are exclusive? If not... then that's her perogative. She's just trying to find someone she really likes.
If she's leading them on..then I hate to say it, but she's a $lut and she needs to stop before she, or someone she's playing gets hurt.
2006-12-07 06:45:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋