HI, My boyfreind who I am very much in love with, loves BIG boobs and me being a 32b, this makes me feel very insucure. He tells me he doesnt want me to get a boob job yet he looks at every fake big boobed bimbo he can find. I just dont understand, if mine are not enough then why be with me???? When he goes to bike week and such he comes home with pictures of nothing eles but chicks with big ****. I just dont know how to handle it...Any advice will help!
2006-12-07 06:31:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do realize that he loves me for more than just my boobs, but if not happy with the whole package then why be with me? I have talked to him about it and he says its only natural to look at other women and it has nothing to do with the way he feels about me. I am sure its just my own insucrites but it hurts!
2006-12-07 06:41:23 · update #1
Sounds like a Prince. Marry him.
2006-12-07 06:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how his behavior is making you feel. He may not be aware of the fact that this bugs you. And on the other hand, he's probably not with you because of your boobs. There is more to a relationship that the outside appearance, don't you think?
I believe you are lacking some self confidence and in order to be rassured you need to go talk to him.
2006-12-07 06:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by amarilysusa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your boyfriend loves you, it must be as you are, who you are right here and right now. If he keeps trying to find something "better" then he is not good enough for you! A woman should not be measured according to her boobs! I know, mine are fairly large, and I am more than only boobs! If he is still childish enough to keep flirting with other women while committed to you... he is the one with a problem, not you!
2006-12-07 06:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by o302 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had the same problem before and i asked mai boyfriend about it...im sure he says he doesnt want u to get implants because he loves the REAL you and 32b thats pretty big and any guys like big boobs but they love the natural.
2006-12-07 06:36:30 · answer #4 · answered by Cindi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then talk to him tell him if doesnt like your boobs and stares at other chicks boobs then yall dont need to be together you need to find somebody that likes you for who you r and you dont want to have big boobs they just get in the way then you will have guys staring at you cuz you have big **** i like my **** and they r a size 38c thats big enough for me... just be happy youll find somebody that likes small ****..
2006-12-07 06:36:59 · answer #5 · answered by bobbys_baby_88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that doing so in such an obvious fashion hurts you. He'll stop (he might)... Don't get a boob job, because it feels different when your boyfriend might touch them, and that might cause him to ditch you.
2006-12-07 18:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by oofagook 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him about the boob thing. Tell him that you can not stand to see him look at other peoples boobs and that you feel very insecure.
2006-12-07 06:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by Emily C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought that he doesn't only like you for your boobs?
2006-12-07 06:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him notice you and your good qualities.
2006-12-07 06:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by Rob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋