romantic partners when your relationship is first developing by telling them you want to just be "friends"?, and if you do, what are the signs you give to keep the pursuit alive?.......
2006-12-07 06:29:45 · 13 answers · asked by captainkirkwood 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope, I am totally honest and totally direct and more blunt than most people care to think about. I don't play games.
Lots of girls do though, I don't really know why. When you figure it out, let me know.
My best guest is that most people don't know how to be honest or have enough self esteem to present themselves square in the beginning. A girl like that isn't worth being around. Trust me, do you want to ALWAYS play games? No? Ok. Move on.
2006-12-07 06:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by Thera 9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am married now but in the past I didnt tell a guy I wanted to be just friends. I let things develope the way they should. If it went to friendship only then at least I had another friend but if it went to romance well thats cool too. But either this girl you are talking about doesnt want any relationships right now or she has maybe been hurt and is trying to take things slower this time around. My hubby and me started off being friends and I didnt tell him thats all I wanted it just developed into what was right for us. So just see where it goes and Good luck!
2006-12-07 14:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by LadyT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not sure. I just always start out that way if I'm available. Then I choose from several man-friends if one of them is compatible enough. If not, I keep looking. ONce I have chosen someone, though, I let the other guys go. I am faithful when involved. As long as everything stays copacetic, I stay with my man. Should he become 'evil', it's over and I move on.
Answer your question?
2006-12-07 14:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt' call it a test. But I like to make sure we are compatible in other ways before I test anything else out first. Hey sex could be good, but nothing else if you don't have anything else in common. Just talk sweet to them until you see how you really feel.
2006-12-07 14:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heavens no. I am always honest with any potential partner. I date to get to know them. I date multiple men at once. No sex while just dating. Then I choose!
2006-12-07 14:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't, but I'm sure some women do. I beleive in being open about stuff, saves a whole lot of confusion later.
2006-12-07 14:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by krissy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to get a new "romantic partner" because a girl shouldn't be worth so much trouble.
2006-12-07 14:34:36 · answer #7 · answered by Shortie<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Why would you play with someones emotions like that. Think of how bad you would feel if someone you really liked said something like that to you?
2006-12-07 14:32:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tests are good...keeps ya on your toes ;0)
2006-12-07 14:33:04 · answer #9 · answered by Tina S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I prefer to be honest.
2006-12-07 14:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋