I dont know why but i think my mom hates me and she told me so...What should i do? me and her never talk ne mo

Answer 1

Sometimes people say things and they don't really mean what they said. You may want to consider going to a counselor, either at school or some other place. There are plenty of places where you can find a counselor for free, and it would help you with personal issues.

Answer 2

In my opinion, a mother should never tell her daughter that she hates her. If something you have done is bothering her, she should have told you that she didn’t like your behaviour.And she should have told you what you have done to upset her.

In your case, it might be a good idea to talk to a counsellor. There are government or government supported organizations which provide counselling services and they would probably see you free of charge if you are minor. What they are called depends on the country, state/province you live in - Their phone # is usually listed under Community Services, Family Services, Youth Services, Social Services, Youth Crisis, Youth Advocate, etc. in the Yellow Pages. Even if you are not sure you’ve found the right number, just give them a call. They’ll give you a good number for you to call.

What counsellors would do is to talk to you and help you seeing through the roots of the problems, how to deal with the problems, gaining your confidence back, etc. They would even talk to your mom if you want them to. If you don’t want them to, they won’t talk to your mom without your consent.
I used to be skeptical about counsellors, but they actually helped me a lot when I was going through a hard time.

Good Luck ;-)

Answer 3

WELL XMAS IS COMING ITS THE TIME OF YEAR PEOPLE ARE MORE WILLING TO FORGIVE.
I WOULD GO TALK TO HER, MAKE AN EFFORT TO TALK THINGS THROUGH. LET HER TELL YOU HOW SHE FEELS,HONESTLY.
DON'T INTERRUPT HER LET HER SPEAK HER MIND.
THEN YOU WILL GET THE CHANCE TO TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL, YOU ONLY GET ONE MOTHER HERE.
LOVE HER WHILE SHE'S HERE, NOT AFTER SHES GONE.
TELL HER YOU LOVE HER.
COMMUNICATION IS BEST.
ITS PROBABLY SOMETHING STUPID THAT PUT YOU GUYS ON A STAND OFF.
SWALLOW YOUR PRIDE, BE THE BIGGER PERSON, AND MAKE THE FIRST MOVE.
YOU COULD CHANGE THE OUT COME.
YOU ARE BOTH PROBABLY THINKING THE SAME THING.
WONDERING IF YOU SHOULD BE THE ONE TO BREAK THE BARRIER.
ITS NEVER TOO LATE TO REPAIR YOUR RELATIONSHIP
ITS TOO BAD YOU DON'T TALK COS YOU NEED YOUR MOM.
IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU MISS HER TERRIBLY.
CALL HER
DON'T WAIT TOO LONG OR YOU WILL REGRET IT.

Answer 4

Hate is a reflection of the one who harbors the hate and not about the one it is directed at. You are not the problem. She needs psychiatric and spiritual help. You need in a better environment. Get support from family, friends, school teachers, counselors etc. Call children and youth and see if they can suggest help for you to be safe. Pray for her. See if a church can help too. Reach out to the community. Do not let this become your problem. You need to rid yourself of this baggage before you end up carrying it through your life. I would love to have a daughter like you. I will pray for your safety and her recovery.

Answer 5

well never thank that mothers go thru a lot and a lot of people dont relize. the things that mothers do you should be greatful to even be there with your mother. there are so many in foster homes and in children and family waiting to become a part of someones life so dont just come out and feel like no one cares because some people do and i am one of them. and no im not just saying that for points. points cant talk and be there so godbless and be greatful because it could be a lot wose tell your mother you lover her and give her a hug. happy holidays

Answer 6

Try to talk to her. FInd out why she has this hatred for you and see if you can resolve the matter. If you guys get into reallly heated arguments then go some where nutral, like a consuler or a frinds house. Just talk to both of you are out of breath and have decided if you really truthully want to continue like that.

Answer 7

She doesm't mean what she said to you. We are all alike when we get angry we blurt out things we do not really mean to emphasize a thing depending on the gravity of your offense and regret later saying it. Say sorry and kiss and make up with her. Besides she is your Mom. She will always love you for whatever you are. I know for I am a Mom too. i scold my kids if they do wrong all the time. Learn from your mistakes too.

Answer 8

You should listen to people who tell you good things about yourself. Maybe your mom just said that because at the moment she was very frusterated. Or maybe she feels that way all the time. It might be because her life is not very good. Just know yourself and believe in yourself and do your best to be a good person and don't let what she says bother you.

Answer 9

It sounds like misunderstanding sweety...We all have done it and please talk to your Mom or atleast find a way to communicate...Wether it's via email, via chat, via phone, via person...It's very important to have good relationship with your Mother...It's the only way you'll suceed in life...Well atleast that's what I think...I have my days where I felt my Mom misunderstood me and there where times in the past that word where exchanged out of anger...But trust me...They're not really what she meant to say...Please understand that life is just frustrating at times and we do tend to say from time to time things that are hurtful...BUT always thank every day that you have each other...Remember w/o your Mother you wouldn't be who and what and where you are today...She is the reason you are you...Remember try to talk in positive way...This will mend your relationship back...Good luck sweety...

Answer 10

Sit her down and tell her that you love her. Ask her why she hates you. Perhaps it was the heat of the moment. Keep your tone calm, and tell her how it hurts you when she says things like that. Have a heart-to-heart discussion. Bond over something. Make her dinner.