ok i talked to my ex the other day and he told me that if it didnt work out with his current gf he wanted to know if i would take him back...and i go idk...and he goes ok. then he goes ive actually been hoping that u didnt find anyone so that i might be able to get back with u ...and ur the only other girl i could ever love. and he goes u know i still love u and i always will and he still has a gf and he goes no one loves me and i go thats a lie...ur gf probably does and he goes no i dont think so....and i go well i love u and care about u and he knows i meant it in the way of friends so he didnt take it wrong....anyways....i was talking to him and he goes yeah well i love u and i dont mean that just in a friend kind of way...and then yesterday he got mad at me for something i didnt even do and we started fighting about it...its like we are still going out except without the benifits....u know like kissing and stuff...but everytime we see each other we hug each other and the other day.
2006-12-07 06:25:03 · 5 answers · asked by blondie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we like leaned in like we were gonna kiss each other and someone walked up so we backed away.....i still love him..its been almost a month and none of my feelings have changed at all...i keep having these visions (most of the time my visions come true) and in them we are back together and getting married and stuff and i know its wrong to think about that cuz hes with someone but y does he keep doing this...y does it feel like we are still dating y does he keep saying i love u to me and y do we both feel like something is telling us we will have another chance together...the reason we broke up is cuz my parents "didnt like the age difference" but i know that its cuz we broke up and got back together and broke up and got back together it has nothing to do with age....whats going on with him?
2006-12-07 06:27:35 · update #1
Ignore him for a while because he cant make up his mind about either one of yal...if he leaves his girlfriend then go for it because you dont want to do something to hurt the other girl...beleive me i was once the other girl while my boyfriend loved somebody else and he really hurt me because he wanted to be with the one he truely loved but he still played with my heart!!!and ur the one he truely loves so ignore him til he can be truthful to u and her because its going to really hurt you in the end if he ends up staying with her!!!!! I hope you get what im saying
2006-12-07 06:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by jessica p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty simple, he wants to have his cake and eat it to. Why are you allowing him to use you this way. If he has a girlfriend and he is doing this with you then the tables could easily be turned to where you are the girlfriend and he's doing the same with another female. You need to let that go and live your life before things get hateful. Never allow anyone to play you for a fool. You are allowing your life to pass you by while he's living it up with two women.
2006-12-07 14:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you don't tell us is why you were breaking up and getting back together...are the issues still there that would cause you to split up? if they are then it won't work...we all know that relationships don't always work perfectly, and that they take a lot of work, but they take a lot of work from BOTH people...if he still has a gf then she's the one he wants to be with or he wouldn't be with her and until he's officially single he's off limits...
2006-12-07 15:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by Shannon M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...i think you should tell him you still love him but it's hard to say when i don't know him and i don't know what he's like. but you would think if he still loved you he would finish with his g/f!
i don't get men! does anyone out there get them? they are confusing! grrr
2006-12-07 14:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by Newoliun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
p-l-a-y-a
2006-12-07 14:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jimmy P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋