i feel really awful,please help?

Question

hi all,i feel really awful,like no-one cares or if they say they do then they'll let me down or hurt me.i feel like i can't trust anyone and i can only trust myself.i have been let down by people that i really did care about but they hurt me in terrible ways.i feel awful,like i am living for no reason,that my life is empty and worthless.

Answer 1

Hi honey, your obviously depressed,there are loads of us the same as you out here, and we do care.

You need to see your doctor, he will give you something to make you feel better.

Then you will be able to cope with the people and troubles that life deals you with.

Good luck and god bless, and remember, when your feeling really low and need someone to talk to, we're all hear for you. So don't think your on your own.

Answer 2

Right then, cheer up and here's ten tips on getting your own back:

1. The potato up the exhaust pipe ruse. Means they rev the engine to bug**ry and break the valves. If the car in question has a V8 engine the potato shoots out likes a rocket and with any luck it'll go through their greenhouse.
2. Clingfilm on the toilet. There's a reason it's a classic!
3. Electro-magnetic pulse bombs. Set them to detonate at the right location and you can wipe out their telly, phone and computer all at the same time and they won't know why!
4. Wire up the doorbell with a clockwork relay to ring every 20 minutes. Drives 'em mad! Eventually they'll stop ansering the door and miss something important.
5. Play extremely low frequency sound waves at their houses. It causes feelings of paranoia, anxiety and physical distress but they can't be heard. If you get down low enough you can hit "the brown noise" which causes unscheduled bowel movements.
6. Attach a big electric motor to their electricity supply and let it run for weeks. Watch their faces as they get the electric bill!
7. Plant a lot of Marigold seeds in their gardens secretly in such a way that when Spring comes and they look out of an upstairs window they're treated to a big golden "BOLLOCKS" on the lawn.
8.For every pair of socks they've got, hide one somewhere they'll never think to look.
9. For female irritants use their most expensive lipstick to write "YOU NEED A NEW TUBE OF THIS LIPSTICK" on their mirror.
10. Scorpions in the sock drawer. A timeless classic of revengology.

Once you've done these to people their spirits should be well and truly broken. If you've driven them to drink, sell all the booze in the house at cut rate prices to passing strangers. When you've driven them mad, don't forget to laugh demonically and shout "HAHAHAHA! WHERE IS YOUR GOD NOW?" at them.
Remember the School Song of St Trinian's:

Maidens of St Trinian's
Gird your armour on!
Grab the nearest weapon
Never mind which one.
The battle's to the strongest
Might is always right
Trample on the weakest!
Glory in their plight!

Strive towards your fortune
Boldly on your way
Never once forgetting
There's one born every day.
Let our motto be broadcast:
Get your blow in first!
She who draws the sword last
Always comes off worst!
OK?

Answer 3

I'm sorry you feel like that. Maybe talking to a therapist could be a good first step. Then, how about just making acquaintances for a bit. Don't worry about big relationships right away until you feel more sure of yourself. If you join a gym, you could get the bonus of exercising (which truly improves mental health) and make some casual "friendships" too. Or take a class of something that interests you.

Contrary to what some people say, you don't need to be involved with a significant other to be complete. Just spend the next period of time getting ok within yourself, and take building of friends slowly.

Best wishes to you, and your health.

Answer 4

Oh well, this seems to be going around.
Dont let this negative evil force get all your power.
U have got to love yourself and trust God above for answers.
Your life is not empty or worthless...u are travelin thru this planet, make the best of it.
U are right, dont trust noone but God and yourself.

Answer 5

I can understand how you feel. We all have highs and lows it's the way life goes sometimes. When I feel like that it's like everything and everyone is against me. This isn't true I just tell myself this. I do actually think the only person you can trust whole heartedly is yourself. Trust is something others have to earn and once they brake that it's hard to get it back.

Answer 6

hang in there a keep the faith that god hear your prayers and your not alone try talking to someone you trust or visit the doctor and tell then how you are feeling and they can point you into the right direction to talk to the right people that understand that life can sometimes be hard and with help you will over come this problem

Answer 7

aw chick ive been there.and believe me youll come thro this. i promise.
love yourself first then others will love you.
i know you wont agree with this right now.just remember you were given life for a reason.
i truly believe that what dosent kill you only makes you stronger.
you will be ok babe.just learn more about yourself and forget the others for a while.....you are a child of the universe believe that you deserve so much more than being sad.
being selfish at times helps to .
good luck and one day at a time chicks,
believe me x

Answer 8

Life is full of minor details. Nothing really matters in life because we are all going to die some day. But people who hurt you don't even matter at all.They don't qualify to the minor details that consist life. People who love you ,do.

Answer 9

wow I've just scrolled through some of the answers you have received, I really don't think you need to feel that way any more after reading all those wonderful msgs of hope and love, all i can add to it is that you are loved and wanted and you are truly blessed.

Answer 10

aw babes just hang on in there,u must have family or friends that care about you? we all feel this way at times,hormones are usually to blame.get yourself out there and enjoy life,keep yourself busy and i'm sure there's people you could talk to.try www.sane.org.uk or google for counsellors in your area.good luck hun hope you'll be okay.