I met this guy online on accident and I've kinda taken a liking to him.We talk via email and text but we have yet to meet. We have talked over the phone once, and we have exchanged photos. He is really hot . He is also very staight forward and he refuses to meet me with friends, he says that we should get to know each other first before we invite other people cause they are only a distraction. I have made it very clear that I have a man who is currently incarcerated and I have no desire to cheat on him. However this attraction between me and this guy is pretty strong and I think thats why I have put off meeting him for fear of what might happen. He is becoming frustrated with us not meeting yet and I don't know how to handle it. I want to meet him but I can't help but think that is just because I'm very lonely. I don't know what to do!!!!!
2006-12-07 06:16:48 · 5 answers · asked by Susie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
meet him, but make sure you set up a date in a public place (safety 1st)
2006-12-07 06:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by Sairax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. If you don't want to cheat and you think you will that is a pretty good indication of what you should not do! I am also not so sure about the not meeting with friends. For the first time I would not want to meet alone. Just cause he sent you a picture does not mean it is really what he looks like. He could have pulled any picture off the Internet and sent it to you saying it was him. I know someone who has done that sort of thing and it is wrong. I just want you to be careful. Wouldn't want something to happen to you due to the way people can be this day in age. Hope this helps. Need to really think it through.
2006-12-07 14:25:54 · answer #2 · answered by CGS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all- if your current man is incarcerated, then you don't need him. That's never good.
Secondly, you probably don't want this guy either.. he sounds a bit creepy if he doesn't want other people around when he meets you- you could wind naked and dead in a ditch if you aren't too careful.
Why not take this opportunity to become who YOU are on your OWN without a man in your life? I think you might like the outcome..
2006-12-07 14:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it wise do meet up with someone over the internet?
There was someone in my class who switched university and I tried contacting him but I knew exactly what he looked like and what he was like generally, that was weird enough but how do you know he looks like that? You may as well get it out of your system, he might turn out to be better than the one locked up!
You sound like a responsible adult so meet up with him in a public place and if he turns out to look like (insert your favourite ugly man) then leg it!!!!
2006-12-07 14:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by The Face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should meet him but go somewhere where there are other people around, just incase. You will know right away if he is slime!!!
2006-12-07 14:20:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋