i really relly like this boy in our school, but he don't he said he likes me a a good friend, but how can i make him love me as a real love, i can't live without him. plz help
2006-12-07 06:00:12 · 30 answers · asked by Minnie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey you can't make anybody love you. People fall in love with other people on their own terms. First you need to love yourself before you look for love in a partner. You can live without this fellow because you are doing it right now. Don't try to change who you are so one guy will like you...live life to the fullest. Have fun with friends, be happy and I'm sure your charm and sparkle will get this fellows attention.
2006-12-07 06:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by Tina S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you can't live without him because you constantly think of him. This is not something you must do but something you have convinced yourself you must do to live. Friendship is fine and that is enough until such time as you are ready to find someone to marry. It is the love of your life who will be your world but not this guy or any other for now. However, to answer your question you can't make anyone love you or care for you. Someone has to get to know you first before anything else happens. It takes time and you are not willing to wait. Be patient.
2006-12-07 14:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no guaranteed way to make someone love you.
You'll be happier in the long run if you move on. Find someone new - you may think you can't live without him now, but in six months or a year you won't be saying that. People are amazingly resilient; they heal from almost anything.
Good luck with love!
2006-12-07 14:02:19 · answer #3 · answered by Dilettante 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone do anything.
BUT if you are a sweet person, with a good nature and fun spirit, you will nearly always catch someone's eye!
Don't obsess about this guy. He's told you his feelings, and will be uncomfortable if you push him too far. You may even lose him as a friend.
Be his friend, and live life as usual and be happy. When he's ready- and you and him are meant to be- you'll know :)
2006-12-07 14:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by midsojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME!!!! When I was in high school, I was madly in love with this girl. We we're best friends but she never gave me the time of day, she kept telling me she was not ready for a relationship but she would date all these other guys. Finally one day I decided to just let her go, it still hurts but you can never make a person love you. No matter how much you love them, if it's not meant to be it won't happen. Just let it go.
2006-12-07 14:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by Skullsoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its impossible to make someone love you, my best advice is to let him see who you are be yourself and be proud of who you are and never try and deviate from this because you will lose the true essence of yourself by being some thing and some one but not who you truly are. Good luck
2006-12-07 14:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by leo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo should never try to "make" someone love you. become as close friends as you can..express your love to him...and he might eventually fall in love with WHO YOU ARE..not what you made yourself to make him love you. love is a concious decision. don't try and force it..beacuse...you can't. you want love not just physical attraction.... the girl that i love i knew as a good friend for a long time then as i discoverd more about her..she became more beautiful to me on the inside as well as the outiside. be yourslef.....love him..and maybe your dreams will come true...but don't compromise who you are. wouldn't it be better knowing he loved you for you?
2006-12-07 14:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by Jordan B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slip him a mickey. Have him all drugged up and tie him up in your basement.
Oh wait...thats right...you can't make anyone love you!!!!
Instead, be yourself and confront him about wanting to go out with him. I suggest you don't though, you seem a bit young to have the maturity to deal with the opposite sex in a respectful mannor.
2006-12-07 14:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by Thera 9 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can achieve it in these following steps-
method-1
1.kidnap him
2.put him to starve for a day or two
3.put a condition that you would give him food only when he accepts your love.
Method-2
1.kidnap him
2.tie him up to a pillar
3.sit naked in front of him
4.put a condition that you will free him only when he accepts your love.
PS:
1.your may take the help of superman/catwoman/spiderman etc.
2.method -2 would never fail.
2006-12-08 05:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by sona_d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get yourself some security and self esteem first!
...You are too needy!!!!!!!!!!!!!..That's a turn off ....
You cannot make a man love you!!! Hello.... You need to understand that! r you nuts? if you are so psychotically in love with this boy who does not even know you exists...you r truly crazy! you'll only drive him away........
2006-12-07 14:33:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋