I have ALOT of friends that love me 2 death..but they say that my boyfriend is cheating on me cuz they have seen him w/other girls. But my boy says they r all lieing...and he says that he's the onlii 1 for me...but he told me that to prove i love him i have to stop hanging out w/my friends...and idk if he is cheatin on me..yes 1 time i caught him but he swore to me thst it will never happen...WHAT SHOULD I DO??
2006-12-07 05:49:23 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask for proof.. Never go on just what some one tells you. If your friends can back this up then hey dump him. But if they can't do not go on hear say. You never know who is mad at who and who is jealous of what.
Never jump the gun. As for him asking for you to prove that you love him, you need to tell him that your word is enough and trust is the biggest part of a relationship and if he wants you to trust that he doesnt cheat then he needs to trust in you that you love him.
Good Luck!
2006-12-07 05:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by Issym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually what's most important is trust.It can be between friends or partners.The way u tell ur story one thing is clear that the percentage of ur trust is definitely more 4 ur friends than 4 ur bf.And since u once actually caught him cheating on u,there is a good chance of u not feeling the respect 4 him and dignity 4 ur own self that u must have felt earlier.My advice is start talking to urself a lot more.Find out ur real emotional needs in this present situation and talking to urself will definitely help u.U will surely get ur answers then.Then take ur next step whether to be with him or not.only u can find this answer here remember.my instinct says that u should part ways but then u know best 4 ur life.
2006-12-08 15:10:20 · answer #2 · answered by luckvin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never have to prove your love. People that ask you to drop your friends are often very controlling. hell it can even be a sign of someone who is apt to abuse you in the future, not saying he will, but just that it's a bad trait. Why on earth would your friends lie to you? Its hard to tell a friend something like this, but listen to them. Friends are way more important. Have you heard them say choose him or me? No probably not because they will be there for you no matter what. Drop the boy and keep the friends. Also look for a man that is able to accept your friends. WIthout your friends you will be come very isolated.....
2006-12-07 05:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by masterjennjenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have many boyfriends in life, but a real friend you don´t find it that easy and if you have caught your bf once, my point is, if he has done it before he can cheat on you any time, you can loose very good friends as you say by staying with your cheating bf.
2006-12-07 05:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by oso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I almost hate to say anything because he has done such a wonderful job of manipulating you without you even noticing. His faithfullness is on trial and he has turned the tables on you girl. He says that HE"S the only one for YOU, not that YOU are the only one for HIM. He has YOU proving your love for him by making sacrifices eventhough HE is the one who has been caught cheating. I hope that you will learn from this.
2006-12-07 05:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by Rob 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friends are more important if they are true friends, boyfriends will come and go. If you trust your friends maybe you should believe what they are saying. Once a boy is gone it will be your true friends that are still by your side. Believe me I almost lost my best friend of over 20 yrs 2 yrs back because of some idiot.
2006-12-07 05:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave HIM ! your friends are not going to lie to you about that think about it you already caught him once and took him back so now he thinks he can cheat whenever he wants and apparently he is. You need to leave this guy , he just wants you to not talk to your friends because they are the ones who are getting him caught. If you stay with him you are just asking for it He is cheating leave him you deserve better
2006-12-07 05:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not good.
If he tells you to drop your friends, he's doing a control thing.
You should just step back and see the picture.
You caught him, your friends saw him, and he says everybody is wrong but him.
I don't say this very often, but you might try finding a nicer guy who trusts you and your friends.
Sorry.
2006-12-07 06:00:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends!!
2006-12-07 05:53:09 · answer #9 · answered by usopwilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming you are a teenager which means that he IS lying and you need to dump him. Besides, no one who loves you would tell you to prove it by doing anything like dumping your friends.
2006-12-07 05:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋