A man that I am casually dating (his terms) likes me and at times calls
me his girl. However, when I suggest to him on the issue of us being in a committed relationship he says "give it time." It has been six months.
He has been divorced and now only wants casual dating. He wants to gain sole custody of his son which he says is his first priority. He claims he is not seeing anyone else and is always available anytime that I call him when were not at work. However, I am getting tired of just being his friend and wonder should I wait until he's ready to commit or move on?
2006-12-07 05:42:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love this man then it is worth the wait. But make sure he loves you too!
Also, I would set a time limit because I think after a year or so
a person knows how they feel about another person. Keep talking
to him and letting him know how you feel. You can gauge from his
answers as time goes on whether or not you should stay. Its so
hard dating nowadays!
2006-12-07 06:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by simplyput 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how much you love this man. You can not push someone into being into a commited relationship. They have to want it otherwise it will never work out anyway. If you want to be with him than you just need to trust that he isn't with anyone else and wait for him to be ready to commit again. If you can't than just leave. You don't want to become too attached of have his son become attached to you.
2006-12-07 05:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by tinytinkbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him,i suggest you to wait for him only if he's worth all your time,energy and emotions.Meanwhile focus on things or activities that fascinate you and be happy all by yourself without attaching any strings to him till he is ready for commitment.But if you think he's not worth your wait,move on.There are better guys out there for you,find someone that will not make you wait,the one who will be there by you always.
Remember,your life should not be a consequence of somebody else's choices.
2006-12-07 05:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 05:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋