A year ago I ironically got in contact with my biol. grandfather, and then my biol. grandmother. My gf lives in New Orleans and is a successful attorney. My grandmother lives in my city and I barely see her even. My adoptive mom, granny, and myself went to visit him in NO's and everytime just about.. he brought his "stepdaughter" who I believe is his girlfriend. (Personal elaboration I'm thinking of). He had been talking to me of including me in family things, and taking me around Louisiana where my family is from. And even doing monetary things for me (which I dont care about nor need). All the sudden I was forced to quit college and he didnt like it. He sent me this nasty email with perfect grammar, something that is not his strongpoint.. but his girlfriend was a journalist (think she wrote it?). We are no longer in contact and he wont even return emails of "Hi, I'll be in No's this week". I am kind of bothered because in 5 months I'll be having my baby and want him to know it.
2006-12-07 05:40:40 · 2 answers · asked by KelBean 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Send him a formal letter announcing the coming of your child (via certified mail). This way you'll know if he gets it. No parent likes the idea of their child dropping out of school (for any reason). We all want our children to "succeed". Point out to him that Sam Walton never went to college and became the world's richest man (i.e. Walmart). Bill Gates dropped out, and you know how he did. So, let him know that you are special too, and that, although you may not wind up a multi-billionaire, you will be a force to be reckoned with and a useful member of society.
2006-12-07 05:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by kwightman69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry you cant force ppl to be responsible...say nothing unless he contacts you again
2006-12-07 14:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋