It seems many people seem to think that lovers and friends are of opposite quality and it is easier to get intimacy/support from someone of the opposite sex who is just a "friend" than a lover. Is that immature? I find it disturbing.
2006-12-07 05:35:49 · 8 answers · asked by loana c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am friends with all of my ex-lovers! i think if the person is mature enough then they can remain friends with anyone. its all about how well they can handle their emotions. i talk to some of my ex's all the time! It doesnt bother me at all! My girlfriend doesnt really like it, but she also knows that im a very truthfull person, and would hurt her for nothing!!!
2006-12-07 05:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by smitty4626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you cannot be lovers and friends, because friends don't sleep with friends. But on the other hand lovers going to be lovers not friends. It''s to much confusion.
2006-12-07 05:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by angle2005star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I thoroughly understand and believe you. I fell in love with certainly one of my acquaintances... and besides the shown fact that we did no longer actual initiate a courting, I now experience as though i'm no longer able to be around him anymore. that's no longer infantile in any respect, some all of us is able to stay acquaintances and a few are not. you're precise, in case you stayed in touch it would make it lots extra tricky to bypass on. i don't know why she does not understand, besides the shown fact that that's unhappy that she has to lose you as a chum. i don't know, yet grasp in there. with the help of how, super call. I crave simplicity each so often besides, yet on the completed i think of complexity makes issues extra interesting.
2016-10-14 05:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think when ppl are friends b4 they decide to become lovers its better in the long run.when ppl are just friends they can learn more about eachother than b4 they become lovers
2006-12-07 05:42:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they can be lovers and friends at the same time
2006-12-07 05:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have that Micheal Bolton song in my head now "How can we be lovers if we can't be friends?".Haven't thought of that song in ages.
2006-12-07 06:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont want to hear bout who my lover is going to bang after me!
2006-12-07 05:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure i think they can be
2006-12-07 05:38:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋