ok i have know this guys for 16 years and we have fulled around a couple of times in the past and then 10 years later we finally get to gether and now he has this hobag that has been with him off and on for 3 years and he is keeping her around and keeping me around what am i suppose to do am i suppose to tell him its over or what i love him but i can't be the middle person. i went over there last night and she was sitting over there and he was with her but he was kissing me and hugging me and calling baby and not her what am i going to do please help
2006-12-07 05:30:15 · 6 answers · asked by drama_queen20692003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ugh, your name is terrible, but I will respond nonetheless.
There is nothing that is "up with guys" that isn't the same with girls. Can you honestly say that you have never shifted your own feelings within a relationship? Both guys and girls are unpredictable, and yet still have some constants.
The key is to find what makes each person tick, to better understand them. Then maybe you will stop asking this tiresome question.
2006-12-07 05:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by bane10x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're not sharing with a hobag.
If he wants her, then you need to walk.... and keep walking. He's not serious about you.
If he chooses you, then be careful. Tell him that she doesn't need to be around.
I suspect you're getting played. But you are a drama queen after all!
2006-12-07 13:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In truth you should confess to him how the situation makes you feel and try to work on the issure as a pair. If he is unwilling to let her go to make you happy then perhaps it is time for you to find someone who respects you far more. Especially if he claims to LOVE you.
Jonesy
2006-12-07 13:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by Jonesy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the hoe bag out of the picture then its just yu and him
2006-12-07 13:33:04 · answer #4 · answered by dwickleworth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a real life.
2006-12-07 13:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u comfortable with this relationship?if u r not just tell him and c what he will do.
2006-12-07 13:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋