ok, i was goin out with this girl for about a year and three months she always told me she is really happy being in a serious relationship with me, then we had a fight three weeks ago she thought she was pregnant n wudnt talk to me she is not pregnant though it was a stupid fight, and she broke up with me 2 weeks ago, she said she doesnt want a relation ship anymore cause of the preassure, i havent really left her alone ive being calling her n stuff, and i know i shoulndnt do that cause that puts preassure on her and thats what she hates. its only been like 4 days since we didnt contact eachother, she said that she does still love me. do you think their is chance that she will come back if i give her space, and what do i do if i meet her on the street? do u think it might be too late? please help me...advice.
we are both 19 but i love her, i know im really young but i dont wana just give up hope yet... i think she is confused about what she wants, i want other oppinions
2006-12-07 05:27:48 · 10 answers · asked by Dan W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get as FAR away from her as you can.
NOW.
Please trust me on this, i know your brain and heart is hurting and anxious but at 19 your vision is blurred.
Ever drive in the rain and cant see past 2 car lengths? Thats how you are operating at 19 in this situation.
You need some other chick as soon as possible.
You better believe if she is decent looking she is going to get hit on at least once per month. At least, while you keep chasing her like a puppy you will appear less than a man to her.
Dont try to knock her up and trap her. Go out with some other females and this "love" will fade faster than you think.
2006-12-07 05:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by Its me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not to late. Yes give her her space. And when she is ready sit down and have a real long talk. Talk about everything, what you want out of the relationship, what you expect from eachother. Love does just not fade over night, unless of course you did something horrible to her. She might just be in a time in her life where she is confused and needs time to think. Let her think a while. She should come around.
Best of luck.
2006-12-07 05:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 22:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dude i put your paragraph into an online doctor phil advice giving service. it analyzes keywords in 16 different categories and calculates how to make proper decisions about how to handle an ex-girlfriend. It says that you should stay away. Trust me on this one, it will be like quiting heroin cold turkey but in the end it will be worth it. Be the better of the two and if she decides to come around well then youll be there but for now you gotta lay low, man up and not talk to her.
2006-12-07 05:38:50 · answer #4 · answered by gobi1116 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noone is worth loving if they don't love you back. Move on kiddo, you will look back on this in 10 years from now and barely remember what she looked like . Be young for awahile, hang with your buddies and be a kid, theres plenty of time for romance, babies and drama when your older. Let her go....in the long run you will be glad you did.
2006-12-07 05:33:20 · answer #5 · answered by 3boys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing happened to me about 4 years ago.... and for the same reason! i thought i loved her so much, so i gave her the space she needed! we ended up not getting back together, and i am now ingaged to the woman of my dreams!! you should just move on, because there is someone out there that really wants to be with you.
2006-12-07 05:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by smitty4626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her the space if she needs it. But do you really love her or are you finding it difficult to let go. Let go of the bird, if it comes back to you, it may mean that you belong together, if not, maybe it wasn't meant to be.
2006-12-07 05:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by Melody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some space to think about you, and what you had together, and let appreciate the good times!
After that, take it alittle slower, and be concerned.
2006-12-07 05:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by David S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's too late
2006-12-07 05:28:50 · answer #9 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry her problem solved
2006-12-07 05:31:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋