The best way is to talk to your wife,Its her mother and you should be able to tell your wife how you feel and its your wifes job to try and talk to her mother about the problems,If the mother in law cant try to understand and respect you both then maybe you should just stay clear and let your wife and mother have there relationship.cause no matter what its her mother and you dont want to hert feelings.It will only cause hard feelings between you and the wife.Im guessinga t all of this cause you didnt mention anything that she has done.
2006-12-07 05:30:16
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answered by ? 2
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What is she so evil about? She may have hatred against others because her life hasn't gone the way she wants it to. The best things to do. Be nice, respect, and do as she asks. It will make things better. If she strikes at you, slap the *****. Understand what I am saying. Only if she hits you though. Oh and don't talk back and try to get the last whatever.
2006-12-07 05:30:43
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answered by danvil11 2
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Be a man, and tell her to go home, that you have enjoyed her stay with you but I need my space. she might take offense in it but she will be mad enough to leave. If you think that would not work then ask your wife to do it. If you tell her that you need time with her alone, she should understand this. Please put it into a nice way, though, not to offend her to bad where your wife and her will be on the outs. I did this with one of my in laws also, my husband had to ask his father to leave after a month of staying with us, I needed a break, and I also have two children , and it was putting a damper on there lifestyle too. They actually wanted him to leave because it was affecting there school work. And it was not very well on our relationship. I fought alot with my husband, over him, and it was not a healthy relationship all around. Good Luck!!! With your Relationship!! Hope It Works For You!!!!
2006-12-07 05:32:33
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answered by squeaky 2
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Mine is too. I haven't really found a way to deal with her other than just straight out ignoring her. She is fully aware that she isn't welcome at my home and her son (my fiance), keeps her aware she isn't welcome here. She also doesn't call nearly as much now that she realizes she can't just show up whenever she feels like it, and she can't keep invading our lives. I tried out the being a bigger person thing, and it didn't work out well for me-I don't know if that was because of her own stupidity or her own refusal to believe that we can fully function without her around 24/7. I think she was in denial about the fact that her son no longer wanted to be with her all the time and that as a adult he has his own responsibilities to take care of now. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-12-07 05:28:35
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answered by stacijo531 3
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You cannot do anything about it. A mother is still a mother. Where would she go if you send her away. Charity begins iat home. You will one day be an in-law yourself and remember the golden rule." Don't do to others what you do not want others to do unto you."
2006-12-07 05:46:58
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answered by Anonymous
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well put small bouncy balls in her gas tank so when she comes to a stop the car dies, replace her shampoo n conditionor with nair (hair removal for legs) (dont do the whole bottle just half) put fiber sure in all her food, gives ya the runs. with out messin ya up.
2006-12-07 05:37:59
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answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7
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my mil is evil too....the best revenge we got was not getting HER to leave so much.....as we moved several thousands of miles away so she cannot and will not be a part of our daily/monthy or yearly lives...*EVG* Works beautifully ;)
2006-12-07 05:27:04
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answered by bella 2
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Come on to her. Tell her you fancy her sexually and you fantasize about her in the shower. Whenever you see her blow kisses at her and wink.
2006-12-07 06:39:39
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answered by Bert 4
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Tell her you worship the Devil now and need to start your daily ritual.
2006-12-07 05:27:43
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answered by 3boys 3
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After reading all the other answers, all I can suggest you do is kill her with kindness.
2006-12-07 05:58:06
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answered by Mike M. 7
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