today I skip class becasue she was there. Please encourage me to not fell in love, this feeling is not wonderful its burning and suffering. My heart want to be happy but my mind says attachments brings suffering and this feeling I felt is a great example of it. I need a life
2006-12-07 05:24:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
thx BPSKI that really help in this situation but nooffence I think your words kina making me lose more of my selfconfidence. But annyway I should listen to you since your better human than me here have a thumbs up. Truth hurts lol.
2006-12-07 05:39:38 · update #1
I encourage you to GO TO CLASS because it is quite aparent that you need an education! Don't fall in love with her because she will break your heart and steal your soul! That's what humans are good for! GO TO SCHOOL!
2006-12-07 05:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by Love Tha Skins! 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You mean Discourage you from falling in love and Discourage your behavior.
5 years from now you may completely forget all of this,.. forget the person, forget everything,.. even forget why you were bad and why your grades suffered,.. but remember if you had to take the class again.
Tell your Heart love can wait until after School. Everyone needs to wait until some time,.. people are not normally glued to each other all the time. Even those that are the closest have to part ways to use the restroom in public places. Love can wait,.. no problem,.. and that pain might be something else you have forgotten,.. maybe it's a warning to stay away,... you'd be surprised how much people misinterpet from their bodies >.>
If you really like it,.. it will be gone if you lose it,.. so keep your distance if you like that feeling,.. it will be different otherwise.
I don't have a life,.. haveing a life is much better XD You may complain but you love it,.. haveing to do things and see people and stuff.
2006-12-07 13:36:53 · answer #2 · answered by sailortinkitty 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think BPSKI was pulling your leg, so since you like that kind of abuse you clearly have self-esteem issues.
But I would rather address the philosophical problem of asking somebody else's opinion. There is no right or wrong action, there are only right and wrong intentions.
If you think you are "in love" then have you defined love?
Love is sacrifice and acceptance of loss. Anything smaller is a delusion...it is just desire. Desire is an intention to consume something.
If you are truly in love, then you will give up your need to look appropriate and just go make friends for no other reason than to take care of her. You would never miss an opportunity to be by her side because you want to make sure she is safe and well-adjusted. Then, once you knew she had good intentions for herself and the world, you would leave her alone to grow in peace.
That's love. And yes, it is painful. But living without it is much worse.
I would encourage you to love everyone fully...to save yourself and the world.
2006-12-07 14:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hate to say but find a counselor.
Listen, you need to get on with your life. Love comes and goes. It has a tendency to be short if she isn't "the one". She's not worth having panic attacks over!
Love hurts. Very true saying. But, hurting helps you to grow and mature and not make the same mistake twice.
Attachments don't bring suffering. Just look at my parents 37 years married! And they are still happy and in love. Its not always bad.
Yes there are shallow girls like the girls on MTV, but not all girls are like that.
Listen pal. Don't let a little crush get your knickers in a twist. Go to class live life and don't worry about the outcome. You can't fall in love with someone you don't hang out with or are romantic with. You can only lust and want. ^_^
2006-12-07 13:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by muse_of_haunted_memories13 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You do not want to fall in love because you will have your heart torn in one thousand pices. Just play the boad with the pieces but don't loose the game :)
Jackie
2006-12-07 13:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by "J" 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are too young and in-mature to fall in love your grammar is rotten you are wasting your time on romantic thoughts she doesn't want a person like you anyways so give it up and learn something worth while.
2006-12-07 13:35:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe just try to give into the feeling and go with the flow and let love steir your life.
2006-12-07 13:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by monkey 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You already have the answer to your question. You already have the strength you desire.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6yO9yNFCt4M
2006-12-07 13:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by kes08 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋